This guy is just amazing. I have been dating him for about 7 months now. He has never done anything wrong. He is really the perfect boyfriend. Well then something overcame me, and I just slept with everyone that I could. It turns out i had sex with 6 people in a week. How do I tell him. I'm feeling horrible, and I'm sure that he would understand.
2007-02-22 08:49:10 · 30 answers · asked by Jamie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is what you say:
Honey, you are a wonderful man. I am a sl*t and a whore and one helluva mixed-up chick. You deserve wa-a-a-ay better than me. So I'm breaking it off with you, I'm letting you go. You go find yourself a woman as good as you. I'll go kick myself over and over again, then find myself a shrink who will help me straighten out before I inflict myself on another man in this state.
And don't forget to finish with:
Oh, BTW, I screwed six other guys last week.
2007-02-22 09:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by katbyrd41 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him for his own safety. He has the right to know if your behavior has put him at risk for STD's. Obstain from sex with him for now and get yourself tested. Get the results from your Doctor and then tell him. Show him the Doctors report, (Hopefully it's negative) and even though he may walk away from you and never look back, he will appreciate that you showed you do care for his health and safety. It may be the one decision that keeps him from leaving you. We are all guilty of using bad judgment, we all make bad decisions, how we react to, or how we respond to what we did, this is what makes us a responsible person. Even if he rejects you after telling him the truth, you can hold your head up high knowing that you did the right thing.
His rejection of you will not mean you are a bad person.
It simply means that you are not the right person for him.
Hold your head up high, pick up the pieces and move on.
If he is the wonderful guy you say he is, he will choose to like you for who you are and not for what you did.
Good Luck To Ya........
2007-02-26 00:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if I were u I would ask myslef do those 6 people live around us if they do come clean. If they don't come clean eventually with time hopefully if he is understanding he will not leave you because 6 guys in 1 week can destroy the mutual trust and decimate the relationship none of those 6 guys probaly don't add up to the 1 you have.
2007-02-22 16:55:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say look babe i need to tell you something it is gonna be a little ok really bad.. but i need to get this through, i did it with 6 guys like (example) last week. I kno it was wrong for me do this, and i'm not sure why i did that but i did and i'm really truly sorry, but i wanted to say you are the greatest boyfriend ever and you have never done anything worng.. i just odn't kno why i did this but i'm sorry please forgive me. good luck gurl, hope it helps
2007-02-22 16:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by HollyW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah he'll understand that he is better off without you. Not much to say to this, i could never be with anyone that did that to me. Wow that's pretty ruthless. I'm trying not to be mean but i don't know what to type, oh and he has every right to know what you have done. if he forgives you then he is a better man than I. Which also means he is not the perfect boyfriend you've made it very clear that he is in no way satisfying you. yeah you really don't deserve him.
2007-02-22 16:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't tell him he doesn't need the horrible images rolling around in his mind. Every body always says that person the best. But every always makes the same mistake. Sorry but you don't deserve him. just let him go before he finds out and it's to late. Maybe one day we'll learn as a humans to stop hurting each other. but we have a long way to go before that happens
good luck with your choice take care
2007-02-22 17:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jimmy 2 Times 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't this right here just another sad story of nice guys finish last. This guy trusts you, has faith in you and like you said, has done nothing wrong, and you throw it all away. You must tell him the truth and you should break this off. Where is the loyalty at anymore?
2007-02-22 16:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
::::wacks her gently:::::::::why would you want to tell him that anyway?????? Look, this is your burden alone. Telling him will make you feel better, but will give him a lot of issues to deal with. And what happens if you confess and he decides to share his past sexual experiences with you? and what if you both find out neither of you are pure as driven snow?? Stop now. Do not say anything to him. It is your personal business, and your body, not his. Do not tell him.
2007-02-22 17:06:15 · answer #8 · answered by the witch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, maybe he is doing the same thing. How do you know you have only been dating 7 month. And if he hasn't then he knows to just move on. Oh and pray you don't have any std's.
2007-02-22 16:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by - 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DONT TELL HIM!! MEN DONT LIKE THE IDEA THAT THE PU**Y THAT THEY HIT WAS HIT BY 6 OTHER PEOPLE " SO YOU SAY" IS WHAT HE WILL THINK. IN HIS EYES YOU ARE A SLUT THAT HE NEEDS TO CUT LOOSE, OR HE WILL REPAY YOU WITH 12 GIRLS, IN ANY EVENT IT ENDS BAD!! THERE IS A REASON YOU DID THIS U NEED TO THINK ABOUT IT AND ISOLATE THE REAL REASON LIKE YOU LOVE SEX BUT NOT WITH HIM. YOUR BODY IS A TEMPLE, REMEMBER THAT READ TEMPLE ETTIQUITTE ON THE INTERNET CUSTOMS AND SUCH THIS IS HOW YOUR ODY SHPULD BE TREATED. LOVE YOURSELF!! AND KEEP YOUR ACTION 2 YOURSELF
2007-02-22 16:56:59 · answer #10 · answered by angelswife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋