Do I tell them the first day I meet them? Or afte a couple of dates so they get to know me?
2007-02-22 08:49:02 · 9 answers · asked by Manolo L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why would you hide this?? a child is a blessing to you and any one who your sons life is in. this is a joy not something to hide we have a saying "love me love my child" i also say "we come as a package deal" take us both or nothing at all. there is nothing to be ashamed of. if he cant accept your son he is not the man 4 you u need a man with family values not selfish ones
2007-02-22 09:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by angelswife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immediately!!! It's better to get it out in the open that way that person has a chance to decide if it's their thing. They can either be ok with it or not, but if they are not, you'd do better finding out before your feelings are involved. Plus, if you wait to tell them, they'll get the impression that you are hiding something bigger or that you're the sneaky type. Many Blessings
2007-02-22 16:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by qtpisunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the person now!! I have a son and I always let them know I have a son. Your son is apart of u so if anyone want to be with u, they need to know.
2007-02-22 17:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by shorty21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he asks you out on your first date, you reply, "I'd love to go! Let me see, first, if I can get a babysitter. I have a son, six years old--want to see his picture?"
You'll find out real quick whether this is a guy you want around.
2007-02-22 17:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by katbyrd41 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring it up on the first or second date if you wanna have a long relationship with them. if you dont they might feel like you were keeping it from them. they might notbe willing to deal with someone who has a kid. i mean it might be a deal breaker for them.
2007-02-22 16:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by beemariebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your situation i would and if they could'nt handle it then they would'nt be worth it your son is more important then anyones opion but be non shalant ask how they feel about kids then take it from there.
2007-02-22 17:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immediately!!!
2007-02-22 16:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by Blaine J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you feel its the right time but soon youll know
2007-02-22 16:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they ask.
2007-02-22 16:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by FF Geek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋