I am 16(or will be feb.25th)and i have not had my first kiss yet.it may seem weird but when i like a girl i only like her and i never think of any other girl even if we arent in a relationship.What should i do about a girl that just doesnt want a relationship with anyone right now but i am totally into her?we talk for nearly 3 hours a day over AIM and i see her at at school and stuff but she just wants to be friends for right now but she also said she might want a relationship later on.She is the only girl in my grade i like(the others are immature).I just moved from texas to new york and the education level is different,new york is one year ahead of texas so im stuck in 9th grade with the 14 and 15 year olds.Should i try to like other girls,and if so then what age and what grade.I am more popular with the older kids than the younger because i am on the varsity basketball team and the tallest in the school.Would this make a difference also?girls confuse me so much
2007-02-22 08:41:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awh you sound like such a sweet guy.. PERFECT boyfriend material... if you only think about that one girl you like and no one else and never look for anyone else while you like her because she's all you want. wow there needs to be more guys like you i say. if she just wants to be friends right now.. she just is saying she wants to get to know you better. maybe she doesn't feel like she is Ready for a relationship yet.. because it definitely sounds like she has Some feelings for you if she wants to give it a try with you.. but hopefully that is not just her leading you on and giving you false hopes. because you deserve someone to like you just as much as you like them, because that's not fair to you. but i just think she is confused right now.. not ready.. or something of the sort. i definitely don't think it has anything to do with that she just doesn't like You. she's probably just unsure of whether she is ready or not, or if she wants that right now in her life. she might feel she doesn't have that much time for a relationship right now and doesn't want to be unfair to you.. or something like that.. there are lots of things. if you feel she is worth waiting for you should wait for her, because if things are meant to happen for you two they will! and i wish you the best of luck!!! just don't get too attached to her at this time so that incase that "later on" never comes up you won't get as hurt.. i would just look for other girls.. and if you find another one who likes you just as much then good for you.. because the girl you like now you can only wait so long for and then she will have to realize what she is missing out on. you've taken the chance and let her know how you feel... it's up to her if she wants to let a good thing go i guess.. cuz it sounds like you've fought for her. i'm sure she'll come around. i hope so! i wish you the best of luck with this one!!! sorry girls can be so confusing.. but guys can sure be too. ;) and about the what grade and what age should you like.. no one can tell you WHO to like.. that has to come from YOU and Your own heart and feelings.. so Whoever you like, whatever age or grade, then whoever you find is who you find. just don't like anyone TOO much of an age difference. stay within a year or two for now since your still on the younger side.
2007-02-22 08:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by coolio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot on your mind. You will have your first kiss soon enough, whenever you find someone that you are really into. If you really want to have a relationship with this girl you think about all the time, be patient with her. You talk to her all the time it seems like. That is a good start, especially when you have just moved to that school and everything. Just wait until she is ready to have a relationship with someone, and keep talking to her, BUT DON'T PRESSURE HER. It doesn't matter what grade or age you date as long as you are happy and the girl you are seeing is happy with you. So, you are on the varsity basketball team, it just makes you more popular, but it doesn't mean that you are a good person or a bad person. And your height shouldn't make a difference on if a person like you or not, it is what is on the inside that counts. If someone don't like you because you are too tall, they are not worth it.
2007-02-22 16:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by traveling_soldier6784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked this girl out and she is not interested in dating you. (Saying not ready RIGHT NOW is just letting you off easy.) Take the positive out of it: you made a friend, asked her out, now move on. There's nothing wrong with dating a girl a year or two younger. But it's time to move on. You can still remain friends with girl #1. Don't worry about being almost 16 and not kissing yet. I did not until I was 16, but then the next couple of years were sexual bliss. Enjoy the ride and remember to always treat girls with respect and make them feel special.
2007-02-22 16:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be concentrating on girls so much! In my opinion, guys who acted like this always seemed unattractive. It was the guys who were casual and were passionate about something that got all the attention. So press on with your basketball, socialise with people outside school who are your age and just essentially be yourself, thats the most attractive thing to a girl! Your ideal girl is just around the corner, remember that. Just don't feel the need to always have a girlfriend, there's plenty of time for that and in the long run its really good to have lots of girl- friends! Hope everything goes okay for you.
2007-02-22 16:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by momopeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
# 1 thing u shud NOT do:
Try to force yourself into liking sum1 else! If she wants a realtionship later then wait. If you want her that bad then WAIT! That's what guys do if they really like a girl. Be friends with her for now and be glad that she's your friend. As for you being so totally obsessive about her, that's not good. Try to focus on other stuff or pinch yourself every time u think bout her. Also a way to make her come 2 u faster is to go out with another girl just to make her jealous. It worked for me. He actually admitted he wanted to go out with her just for me!
Good Luck!
2007-02-22 16:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by Packer Fan 101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go crazy over a girl. If she knows you like her and she isn't wanting to go out with you,this sounds bad but, she may be using you as a last resort, Go find someone else to go out with and she will see you with the other girl and if she wants to be with you then she will become jealous.And if you two are currently friends you will notice a change in behavior.Good luck and God bless.
2007-02-22 16:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. HAPPY B-DAY!
2. Don't give up on the girl she might chance her mind..
3. To be loyal is good...when your with someone....But if your not than look around see what you can find
4. Be patient the right one will come.
2007-02-22 16:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey!! yea you should just wait on her maybe she is just playing hard to get act like you are liking somebody else and when she sees that you are not paying her any attention then she would start liking you back trust me it work every time but then again you don't want to be struck on just one girl
2007-02-22 16:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by MODel-08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you did talk to other girls she would notice you more. She just might be playing hard to get. Good-luck.
2007-02-22 17:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be sad
2007-02-22 16:45:25 · answer #10 · answered by caylee d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋