well my friend is bulimic, because seh thinks shes fat, but really shes not obease, but she is a bit,,,'big' but its been 5 months already and ive noticed her gotten alot more skinnyer, but not in a good way,,, shes only 13? going on 14...she wont go into treament, her other friends just criticsize her when she throws up, and they say she has to realize that the effect on her is bad...but ya... i need YOUR help cause i dont know how to make her stop...
2007-02-22 08:40:42 · 10 answers · asked by darkliquid_dreams 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
someone already told the guidence counselour, but she denies it every time she calls her to go see her...
2007-02-22 09:16:17 · update #1
HEEELLLPPPP HEEEEERRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't give up on her. keep telling her that she is worth living and that she is loved. Tell her that she is important to you and that you need a friend in ten years and that you don't want to see her in a coffin dead. Tell her YOU LOVE HER
2007-02-22 08:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell her parents or a teacher at your school, there is no other way of stopping this, bullimia is a serious disease and needs medical and psychological help for her to stop. She can not and will not do it without specialist treatment.
Her parents need to know as they are the ones that can make her get the help she so desperately needs.
Yes, she wont like you doing it and may even hate you for it for a while but once she is better she will realise you only did this to stop her from dying because that is what will happen.
2007-02-22 08:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to see a doctor. She's sick and the more she waits without going to a doctor the worse will get. She won't believe her friends or loved ones, it's suspicious in her mind. What you can do is, talk to her in a good way. Don't tell her she's right but don't tell her that she's going to die all the time neither. Tell her that only a doctor can follow her diet and that you will go with her to an appoitment because you're interested on a healthy diet for yourself also. Support her and get together. What friends are for anyway? Hope she gets well. Remember, talk to her always in a good way. For now, she's not wrong, she's not right. But a doctor will tell her how to do it in a safe way. Do it with her. Do it together.
2007-02-22 09:03:32 · answer #3 · answered by Powerful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y!A Friends I have no personal friends at home since I got married. I only have 2 or 3 friends on here but I feel real close to them because I learned so much from them from their profile and their questions and answers. I could be friends in real life with them too if I would meet them. I am a good friend easy to get along with.
2016-05-23 23:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truely her friend you should tell an adult who can help her. I know it's hard to do but you don't have the skills or abilities to make her stop. I would privately go to the school counselor and let her know what your concerns are. The counselor can privately talk to her or her parents. This is a serious disease that can damage her body permanently.
2007-02-22 08:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by monique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her parents need to know. It would not be her decision about whether or not to get treatment...it would be her parents or guardian's since she is a minor. You can also tell your school's guidance counselor who can maybe help you and her. I've been bulimic for over 12 years and it doesn't get any easier to stop the longer it continues. It needs to be stopped now before she does permanent damage to herself.
2007-02-22 08:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit her down and have a serious talk with her....let her know that you care for her and that is why you are trying to stop her from doing this...if she still does not stop you can either tell her that you will tell her parents/your parents or and adult....or if you are afraid that if you tell her this, she may hide it from you and lie saying that she doesn't do it anymore, you can tell her parents w/o her knowing....take her to a doctor your self or tell a school staff member...don't worry if she gets made at you....your only looking out for her best interest...and it shows that you care...
2007-02-22 08:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by Devi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that her teeth will rot out of her skull form the stomach acids.....nobody likes a skinny girl with rotten teeth
2007-02-22 08:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her first.... Tell a teacher, your parents, a consolur, her parents, tell anyone.... that is very dangerous!!
2007-02-22 08:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs professional help, talk her into seeing a doctor or dietitian
2007-02-22 08:47:55 · answer #10 · answered by brien123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋