I started talking with someone whom I went to school with, we hit it off almost immediately and after a month we met face-to-face. The chemistry was profound and we were having a great time then he supposedly had a mishap arise while attempting to stop by he never called to advise me though. The next day I called him and he said he didn't want to call and upset me (not calling did that immensley). Now we're not talking, I tried talking with him but he rushes me off the phone so I said I understood and would leave him alone he said that's not it he just needs to get his head straightened out but it won't change us in anyway or what we had begun. Why is he rushing me off the phone and avoiding me, he also has a personals ad running, if he wants me?
2007-02-22 08:40:19 · 8 answers · asked by Fallen Angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's been divorced for a while now and when I mention leaving he insists that that is not what he wants. I did tell him to be blunt I don't want to be where I am not wanted, even as a friend and he just says he call later and doesn't. Regarding the mishap, he was suppose to catch a ride here but stated his buddy took off and he walked home.
2007-02-22 08:51:36 · update #1
As far as being intimate, he and I spoke about it long before we met and he said he would wait patiently until I was ready. He and I didn't do anything, he was a gentleman the entire time.
2007-02-22 08:59:20 · update #2
well its seem like he not cheating because he telling you hat he has to get his head straight and secound hes probrely going through things and doesny want to tell you. opened up to him and let him no how you fee. its best for you to be with him during an critizes if you really want this to work.
2007-02-22 08:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Jenycia C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ad running? Doesn't want to communicate?
I'm sorry, he's done with you.
Maybe he got what he wanted.
Maybe he figured out what he does want.
Immature guys do not know what it is they want. I once had a relationship with someone I was not really interested with. I thought I could make myself interested, but if there is no attraction... I ended it after 3 weeks. I was a man about it. Made sure I went through the pain of it so that I would never do it again. She hit me, she begged me, she spit on me. All night long. Was brutal.
Point I'm trying to make. Looks like he got what he wanted, doesn't want anymore and doesn't want to go through any hassle getting rid of you.
He's not a man you want to worry about. He's a dog.
You need time to go through the pain of this rejection. Then, next time you start dating a guy, make him wait for intimacy. If all he wants is some physical action, he'll give up. If he's a nice guy and really likes you, he'll wait.
Good luck.
A~
2007-02-22 16:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same problem my ex-boyfriend was on drugs so bad that those were way more important to him than i was. I would also call him he sometimes wouldnt answer and if he did he said he would call you back but he doesnt and your waiting around forever wondering what hes doing. I think he might be doing drugs or he has another girlfriend hes not telling you about. I think you should try to talk to him and if he doesnt give you a response try breaking up with him because no guy should treat you like that.
2007-02-22 16:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by TLC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's married or seriously involved with someone--or you scared the crap out of him. Either way, he's a poser. Move on and leave Wiggy Wigginton to the glory hole booth at the local peep show.
2007-02-22 16:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing this aspect, "...then he supposedly had a mishap arise while attempting to stop by..." answering your question is pretty tough.
2007-02-22 16:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by Cdub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not that into you. If he were, there isn't anything that would prevent him from calling. Move on
2007-02-22 16:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by richard3770 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely, he is "cheating" on you. confront him and find out what the problem is.
2007-02-22 16:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by Shane D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...leave him alone...dont you get the picture...come on
2007-02-22 16:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by sad african 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋