my bf recently told me that he's not sure if he can trust in us.
he says he loves me and feels the same way that i do but when i express my feelings in ways like doing sweet things or making gifts for him it scares him.
he starts to think abt wht will happen if his feelings change for me wht will i do or how will i cope.
he also told me he's scared of commitment and im not pushing him for it..so how would you see this?is it a bad thing?im not sure what he really means...help me plz.
2007-02-22 08:39:43 · 5 answers · asked by pixie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
First we really need to know how old the both of you are and how long you have been in this relationship. If you have not been together very long, the thought of getting serious already would scare any man. Also, if you are very young, that woudl make him react the way her did.
2007-02-22 08:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by dj_jonesd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My lady, I think he is trying to dump you but does not know how. He sounds like he is a nice fellow because it sounds like he does not want to hurt you. Do you a favor dump him first, I am a guy I know. Another thing, woman are blessed with insight something we men do not have. When your heart says something 99 per cent of the time is true. Listen to God's little voice in you. You will find a man that will share your feelings and passions. God bless you young lady.
2007-02-22 16:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by iraqidesertmp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe yall should give your relationship a short break! :) some time apart will really help (believe it or not)....just remember that you may not always get the final answer you want, BUT it the decision is to end your relationship, its truely for the best.
you may think you have mr right now, BUT YOULL REALLY KNOW WHEN YOU TRUELY FIND HIM! :)
good luck!
2007-02-22 16:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by CHRISTINAS MOM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what he;s thinking, is "i'm scared i'll do something bad to her, and lose her". I think it's time you two had another talk and ask him what's properly scaring him. I think he's scared of finding interest in another bird and leaving you alone, by yourself but i believe he does love you
2007-02-22 16:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by ♥H] ッ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seem that he does not know what he want's out of a relationship. You could try in talking to him and asking him what is really his worried. Good Luck
2007-02-22 20:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋