When in love (true love, I mean), you will do anything for the other person......You would deny the truth (love is blind), you'd doubt yourself, You'd give your all to see them happy, even if it meant sacrificing your own happiness. The truest form of love is self sacrifice. Your love knows no boundaries, no limits, no bars.....It is infinite.
But now comes one of the hardest questions of all:
would you let them go if you had to even if you both still loved each other and did not want to lose each other?
This is by far one of the hardest things to do when you love someone truly....
and why would you do this for them if this was not what either of you wanted (but it is just the better thing to do for some reason, or you just have to for some reason)....
Tell me in detail, please!
2007-02-22 08:39:43 · 19 answers · asked by pilotmanitalia 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by reason i simply mean some serious source that has your intuition telling you that letting go would be the best (although most heartbreaking for you) scenario....
2007-02-22 08:46:24 · update #1
"If you love someone, set them free, if they come back is was always meant to be"
I had an ex who was in college, not just your typical 4 years and done, he is working on his masters and wants to go onto a dotorate. We were so in love.....true love. By the time we were together for a year or so, i noticed that his grades were dropping, and he was spending all of his time with me, rather than with his schoolwork or even his friends. I knew i had to let him go.....this was something he had dreamed of doing his entire life...i couldn't stop his from it or try to get in the way. He still to this day, tells me that he still loves me, and some day we will be together. I try to act like i don't love him so he doesn't get side tracked....but i still love him more than life itself. I still would do anything for him, i would die for him. Love is a hard thing to deal with, but i know that if we are so deeply and truly in love right now, and he thinks about me 3 years from now....it is worth it, it really is true love.
2007-02-22 08:46:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
True love does not require you to sacrifice your own happiness to prove that it is true love.Love is about being happier because someone special is in you life. There are principles even when you are in love such as are you free to love, does the party already have a love interest. For some reason, I am thinking that the party that you are in love with already has a commitment to someone else, marriage or whatever, etc. if that is the case, how are you letting someone go who you have never really had in the first place. If there is a reason that you are not saying why you want to let go , only you know the answer to that. No one can tell you to hang on to something that I feel you already know the answer too. You want someone to tell you to hang in there , but I am not feeling that. Move on with your life and try to get a better understanding on love.
2007-02-22 08:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
true love is the common sharing of the ideal that you were born to please this person and conversely they feel the exact same way. You are mirrored images in that as you know the other so well you can do for them without the other even asking for that help. You are living for giving them all you have and all you ever will be. if they wish to leave you open the door for them and kiss them goodbye BUT! You also open that same door for them when they return. Without jealousy or contempt. If your love is blind and your partner of "true love" is always going out with others of the opposite sex then blind isn't the word it's stupid because if it is true love then each of you already know that no one no where could ever replace your love. so you know this you don't allow anyone to come in between you and your love. if it's "true love" there need be no excuses, shyte just doesn't happen in "true love".
2007-02-22 08:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found true love. And I think about that question all the time. My parents forbids anyone in the family to date/marry another ethnicity.
Should it come worst to worst that she and I have to seperate, what we've promised to each other is to wait for one another. For as long as reasonable.
I would let her go so that she may find someone else who can love her even better and make her smile and laugh even more than I can. So as much as I love her so, she can still be happy.
She is technically waiting for me already since my parents don't approve of her and the two of us cling to each other as tough as the going gets.
And so, in the end, it boiled down to making her happy. Even if I may be the one who can make her the happiest on the world, there are others out there who can actually be with her and keep her happy.
Happiness is what I want most for her, even at the cost of my heartbreak.
Detailed enough?
2007-02-22 08:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by pertinential 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok let me undestand this. lets say i love this girl she loves me and that we would want to be together and that there is something which wouldn't let us do that. well in this case I mean there has to be a good reason for me to let her go. I mean if she wanted to go it would have been diffrent I mean I would let her go. But if she doesn't wnat to let me go and if I don't wnat to let her go. I am sorry love is blind I can't see that thing so I woul kill a person if I have to I would never let her go. would rather die than let a person go. I mean what could be a reason that you can't stay with person. that person is going to die. then ok I will stay with that person till the last brath is out of them. oh ok If i am going do die of some reason I would want that person to have a life. I mean I admit this is to complicated and to damn hard. I tried but there is something which leads you to the other part. and then to this part. i mean you are right good question.
2007-02-22 08:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truly a great question. I do believe that is love makes you deaf dumb and blind. I also believe everything happens for a reason whether we understand it or not. Or no reason was givin. Just wanted to put my 2 cents in. They say if you truly love something let it go and if it comes back then it was meant to be. You just have to take your chances and believe in the love you have for each other.
2007-02-22 08:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by cheeks4u21 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it were better for a serious reason, then yes. i'd let them go. Their happiness and well-being is much greater than my own. Although it would be hard, and if there was no reason to do it, then i wouldn't. I would try everything i could to make it better so we could be together, but if there was no other, better option, then yes.
2007-02-22 08:44:15 · answer #7 · answered by Andii 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you both love each other and want each other...then do not ever ever let go....if you are both in love and want each other and are willing to fight for each other...then take her hand and fight together.....
However, if the one you love wants you to leave, then do leave....there is no use in fighting when the one you love does not want this love....it will just cause pain....
Good Luck!
2007-02-23 02:37:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaah omg you totally reminded me of Keri :( your gonna make me cry. I am still trying to figure out why we let eachother go and neither of us are truely happy anymore, she never smiles, never laughs, never has that little sparkle in her eyes anymore, and it kills me. everyday i hope to see her, if i dont, my entire day was wasted and it hurts, but if i do see it, i have a few moments of happiness, but my day just seems worse, and i hve no idea what to do, and i am coping with it, in a very bad way, my love is transforming to hate, and slowly i am starting to hate her, hate her for ever talking to me, hate her for ever loving me, hate her for hurting me, and it hurts me so bad to hate her, i love her too much, but i dont know what to do aaaah whatever you do dont let her go, try to work things out, figure out a way to make things work, find out why she is moving away even though she truely loves you, there has to be a reason, and if the love is true, you can overcome any obsticle that comes in your path, and you will be together for eternity :( :( :(
2007-02-22 08:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by illchillkyle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some time you have to let things go to keep that other happy in away to keep from hurting them real bad.IT MAY SEEM LIKE THAT IT NOT LOVE TO LET GO BUT YOU WANT TO SEE THEM HAPPY NOT HURT.
2007-02-22 08:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋