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there is this girl that i like but i dont talk to her because she isnt in any of my classes and i dont have time to talk to her in between periods. on valentines day i gave her a rose and my number and i told her to call me sometime and we could go do something sometime. she didnt call me but on monday my friend asked if i liked her and i said yeah.he asked why dont i just ask her out,and i said because we dont ever talk.i asked him how he found out, and he said she told him. i asked what else she had said and he said that she just said that we dont talk. so during the week i was wanting to talk and ask her out but everytime i was thinking about doing it i was i couldnt.i didnt know what to say to her, and shes been on my mind. what should i do because i have a four day weekend so i was thinking of getting her number and calling her to see if she wanted to do something,but i dont know what to say or where we could go or if i should wait to talk to her in school next week.wat should ido

2007-02-22 08:34:47 · 28 answers · asked by my name 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

28 answers

Same here! But no rose or anything. You and i both need confodence to call him/her. It's apart of life.. Dont forget life goes on. The world doesn't stop spining if something bad happends.. It keeps going for better opertunities... :D

2007-02-22 08:39:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie 1 · 0 0

Well she has your number and knows you at least like her. By now, she should have done her part. Maybe she's shy or perfers you to call her or to talk to her first. And if she's shy she probably won't confront you or give you her number unless you confront her again. But I'd have to say whip up some courage and take your chances. Talk to her the next time you see her and then ask for her number/if she wants to hang out. Or you can take your time and just start out by only saying hi to her for a couple of days/weeks and then ask for her number and then ask her out. Good luck buddy, but don't wait to long because someone else might get her before you do!

2007-02-22 16:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by Silent Jay 2 · 0 0

Take 5 minutes out of your "busy day" to show her that you care! Darn it! Show her you think she's special! Just talk to her for a minute and ask her why she didn't call you and if it would be better if you were to call her. Then go from there. Don't make this more difficult than it really is! She may be interested in you but shy or she may not be interested at all! Point is, don't let this 4 day weekend come without knowing which is the case. Don't drive yourself crazy. Just ask her and see what happens!

2007-02-22 16:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by CurlyLocks 3 · 0 0

If you are interested in her, be a man and ask her out. Giving her the rose and hoping she will call is like testing the waters so you don't have to get rejected is safe but lacks balls, which is a turn-off. Be cool and ask her if she would like to get together this weekend. If she says no or makes up some lame excuse, you will get over it and at least you are not left hanging all weekend, waiting & hoping that the phone will ring.

2007-02-22 16:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0 0

You should just go up to her tomorrow at school and ask her out. Take her out to eat and to a movie. If she mentioned you to a mutual friend then that means that she likes you. Don't wait until next week, b/c then you will be thinking about her all weekend when you could be with her. Who knows, this could be the best four day weekend of your high school career.

2007-02-22 16:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Kita 2 · 0 0

Well, you did give her your no. and she hasn't called you, but that doesn't necessarily mean anything bad! Since you said you don't really talk to her maybe she doesn't think you're really interested in her! What you need to do , if you really would like to take her out is just come right out and ask her! Invite her to dinner and a movie. That's a good and safe first date and see where it goes from there! Here's a good example of your question: My husband when we first met handed me his phone #. Well, I would never have called him first, but I was interested so the next time i saw him i gave him my #. The rest is History!

2007-02-22 17:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

try to talk to her before you plunge into asking her out. get to know her a little and take things from there. dont get her number from anyone but her, otherwise, it will seem creepy u calling after fishing her number out of a phone book or something. try to talk to her when u go back to school. catch her in the hall and say hi or something. and how did you give her the rose? did u walk up to her and hand it to her and walk away? or did u hand it to her? that was something you coulda fired something up with, and it would have been the easiest day to do it. neither of u had dates (im assuming cuz ur pursuing her) and it was the day for em. you coulda asked her to hang out after school or if she wanted to meet up after school and chill, or if she wanted to come out that night and get some food and get to know each other better. its all in the opportunities, and theres plenty, just start talking to her first, get some info on her tastes, and take it from there.

2007-02-22 16:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by Lappa 1 · 0 0

well if i knew that there was a guy that liked me and gave me arose on valentines day, i would definetly want the person to hang out with me so that we could get to know each other better and if things worked out then i would think about going out with you or findingg a way to talk to you. and she probly didnt call you because it was awkward to call a boy she never talks to ...so dont worry about it. try to do what i told u and if u need more help, contact me at hana2good4u@yahoo.com BEST OF LUCK
Xoxo- emo girl 666

2007-02-22 16:48:07 · answer #8 · answered by killakaren♥ 2 · 0 0

Write a note addressed to her & tell her what you like in her, what her qualities are. e.g tell her you love her attitude, and her hair, and her smile, but don't go too far but tell her she's the only girl you wanna be with. Then finish with your name and three or four kisses then walk past her, and put it in her hand, then carry on walking. A boy did this to me and it really made me feel good and happy and excited!! So do it - she'll love it
- then later on in the day when she's read the note and she isn't doing anything, go upto her and sit next to her and ask her whether she liked the note and ask her out for a date. if she's snobby about the note, then don't bother with her,,- she aint worth it

2007-02-22 16:39:02 · answer #9 · answered by ♥H] ッ 6 · 0 0

Just wait to talk to her at school. Calling her on the phone and asking her out would be too sudden. Just go up to her say: HI. Whats up? Then compliment her and try to make her laugh so that she will get interested in you! then Just say these words: would you like to go see a movie with me friday night? OR! Can i have your number? OR the most unspecific sentence: Will you go out with me sometime?

GOOD LUCK!

2007-02-22 16:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by Here I come I am cinnamon 4 · 0 0

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