i cheated on my wife for a long time and she never knew. it is okay as long as you dont get caught. no harm in cheating as long as you dont get caught.
2007-02-22 08:09:28 · 33 answers · asked by nobody:D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is NEVER OK to cheat, unless your relationship is abusive & breakup is not an option.
2007-02-22 08:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not cheat on the woman you gave vows to on your wedding day. Honestly if she had caught you, you would be all remorseful and telling her you would never stray again but really in your head are thinking when will I see my side dish again? I mean you are a dumb fruit loop and you are in need of some help. I think you cheat because you are unhappy and stupid and are begging to get caught...Too bad I did not know your wife because I would tell her about your problems...And we would laugh at you.
2007-02-22 08:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is NEVER okay to cheat on anybody. If you got into a relationship and got married to this woman she should know that you are cheating on her. Evidently your feelings for her are no longer as strong as they once were.
If you are going to cheat on your wife then you should be a REAL man and either leave her or at least tell her that you want to sleep with either people. It is NEVER EVER okay to cheat on your partner.
You really don't diserve to be with your wife anyways!
2007-02-22 08:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by yep-it-is-me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way ... the harm you are doing is to YOURSELF!
Look at what cheating has done to you.
It has made you dishonest (you lie and deceive, not only her, but yourself and your lover and everyone else too).
It has made you untrustworthy. You have betrayed the trust of the one person in the entire world who thought you were a good enough person to marry, and therefore NOBODY can ever trust you with anything, ever again.
It has made you totally self-centred, and disrespectful of how other people might feel, and the way they might want things to be, to the point that you will do whatever you feel like doing, regardless of what anyone else might think or feel about it.
Cheating has made you SCUM! Think about it!
2007-02-22 08:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by wijit13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer. Either this question is bogus, or you are completely dense. Cheating is never okay.
Although on a more compassionate note, I wouldn't tell your wife, if you've stopped cheating that is, unless you are prepared to face the consequences, like the possibility of divorce.
I AM NOT CONDONING CHEATING. but, there it is.
2007-02-22 08:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by krystalthompson1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there is harm. Apparently you do not think harming your wife important but consider it this way. A normal human being will have guilt and regret for such actions. These guilt feelings will dictate how respond to your wife and will ultimately poison your relationship and your marriage. You will be (or should) miserable while you are together and more miserable when you lose her.
2007-02-22 08:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not okay to cheat. Why did you get married in the first place, if you were just going to cheat on your wife? Your past will come back to haunt you.
2007-02-22 08:12:57 · answer #7 · answered by mark my words 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, cheating is cheating and one day you are going to get caught and hurt her even more. You had better find out why you are cheating and then end it and hope your mistress doesn't rat you out afterwards.
2007-02-22 08:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn it around. Would it be OK for your wife to cheat on you if she didn't get caught? People who are serial cheaters such as yourself need help with their impulse control. Find a local chapter of sex addicts and get help.
2007-02-22 08:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by Loki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is bashing you and I think that other women is giving what your wife is obviusly not giving you. What she doesn't know wont hurt her right? If you are having fun and have no remorse then don't worry about and don't get caught!!!
2007-02-22 08:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by DDR Freak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋