For the past couple of days a lot of things have been going though my head. I’ve been feeling like I’m getting played!!! At first we always had something to talk about on phone but now it’s the complete opposite. It seems as though I’m in it by myself or it seems like I want to speak to you more than you want to speak with me. You say you like me one day and then say you feeling me but not as much…Do u really like me as you say or what? If you like me as you say you do why don’t u show it? I’M NOT A GAME, YOU CAN’T TURN ME OFF AND ON WHEN YOU WANT TO, I’M NOT SOMETHING YOU CAN HOLD FOR A MINUTE AND THEN TRY TO PUT IT BACK!!! …. I can’t make you want me either you do or you don’t!!!(Make up your mind) I know you like other girls and I don’t have a problem with that because we don‘t go together but I’m not about to sit up here waiting and wondering if you like me or If your just want to be friends…. I’m sorry but right now I’m letting all my feeling out and not holding anything back!!!!
2007-02-22 08:05:15 · 8 answers · asked by christel s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow sweetie you sound really confused. I got confused reading it.
but really in the long run the thousands of people here don't need to know you business.
2007-02-22 08:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by geekgirl33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, it's always best to tell someone how you feel face to face. Not on the phone, not a text message, not an email, or anything else. Face to Face. This way he'll get the message loud and clear, and get this...you'll feel a LOT better about it no matter what happens from there. Another thing is that when you're face to face, you can read their body language when they respond so there's little mystery as to how THEY feel and whether or not they're being truthful with you. What I can also tell you is that it is a BIG time turn-on for guys when a girl tells them straight up how they feel. I don't know why but it is. Probably having something to do with self confidence and self respect...that tends to look damn good on a woman 10 times out of 10. So scrap the letter, get in front of him and let him know what's up. After it's over, no matter what the outcome, you'll be glad you did. I PROMISE you.
2007-02-22 08:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by Eddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa...Hold up. "I know you like other girls and that's OK". Really? Then why are you writing this letter? Calm down on the multiple punctuation marks, the bold text, the hysterical ranting.
Tell this kid you're together or not, end of story.
How old are you? You probably are getting played. Watch your butt.
2007-02-22 08:12:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's an editorial nightmare, and I think it displays a lack of maturity.
If your relationships are so shaky that you have to write letters with multiple exclamation points and then ask the world what they think about the letter, I think you'd do well to wait a while until you get older to think about having relationships.
2007-02-22 08:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Stuart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its good, but I wouldn't apologize at the end like that. It suggests that you think what your doing is somewhat wrong and gives him a leg up in the situation. But best of luck with it.
2007-02-22 08:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by mopartimross 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very good but be more determined. What do you want as a result? Do you want him to change his ways with you? Tell him clearly...in plain english. Good Luck!
2007-02-22 08:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by EV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it sounds like a little girl who cant handle the fact that the cutie doesn't want anything to do with her. a desperate move if you ask me. why are you so desperate for this guy. stop it.
2007-02-22 08:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
excellent!
be strong!!!!
2007-02-22 08:08:23 · answer #8 · answered by Maddy G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋