so i like this guy
and we kinda talk but its not like "best friends forever" kinda thing.
but anyway hes going out with this chick that im not fond of..
and i really want him....
whould i tell him now and hope he brakes up with her (thats what i want to do) or wait till they brake up???? (which the school year is about over and ill be off to colledge soon)
i know it seem s mean but im having issues!
2007-02-22 07:55:30 · 11 answers · asked by katiedid_4077 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're going to be going away to college so why would you want to mess up a nice guy's relationship NOW. Let things unfold as they should. Once you're in college you will be meeting so many new people and you might wish you had stayed on the available list. OR - you might wait and go away and still have feelngs for him. If he breaks up with her on his own, with no outside influence, and then he searches for you,, you
ll know it's real and not just circumstance or convenience. Be a nice girl and stay your distance.
2007-02-22 08:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by Wifeforlife 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get him! Forget the other girl. Make a serious and obvious play for this guy, and catch him if you can. Life is short. Have fun with it! Wear sexy clothes and come on to him in an obvious way. Forget everything you ever heard about sluts. Guys like sexy girls and they like attention. So go get him! You will probably forget about him when you get to college, so why not have some fun now? Go get that guy, girl! Good luck.
2007-02-22 08:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, could you live with yourself one way or the other. Do you really want to be the reason that they break up? After all, it could alter your friendship in a way you never wanted. And you will be going to college soon, so what real time will you have with this guy if you do get together.
2007-02-22 08:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by Meredith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have made a move way before now. You can let him know but the distance thing at your age is usually too large a burden.
I'd still wait til they don't work. If you really like him he deserves all chances to be happy, even if it's not you assisting it.
2007-02-22 08:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
betting that this guy will break up with a girl because you like him is a bad idea- you can either let him know you like him, or tell him (politely) that you think he isn't a good match, she's not good enough for him, etc. doing both, however, will make you look jealous and self-centered
i'm sorry you're in a tough situation, but for now he's taken. hope it works out
2007-02-22 08:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait!!! don't force him to end somthing else just because you're unhappy. Look if he is the type of guy who breaks up with one girl just to date another, then as soon as he meets someone else who's closer, or prettier he will do the same to you. You don't want that. plus you're leaving soon, so your just hanging him out to dry. Making him leave someone else just to get your fun in before you leave is not cool. think it over.
2007-02-22 08:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jimmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him and just see how he reacts and if he reacts good then maybe you'll get together and him and his SO called girlfriend will break up and you'll get together it just takes time and im sure youll work something out you seem like a pretty nice gurl!!!!!!
2007-02-22 08:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by lem. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really wanted you he would ask you out and dump the other girl Leave him alone unless he does this! =)
2007-02-22 08:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to quit thinking only of yourself. It's not your place to decide who he goes out with.
2007-02-22 07:59:17 · answer #9 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him
he'll think ur desperate and everybody in ur school will think ur a skank or something
just don't wait till they break up
2007-02-22 07:59:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋