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2007-02-22 07:51:08 · 29 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You move on. Time will lessen the pain. That's all there is to it. I could go on and on being unneccessarily wordy but I have already told you all you need.
2007-02-22 07:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by Dharma Nature 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was once in love long ago, yes time does help but you will never forget them or the way you felt around them. Look, like is struggle, without the pain nobody could ever love anything else. You are a better person now, because you've felt the pain that very few have. This makes you strong, and as a strong person you set the example for others. Stay strong, even through the pain.
2007-02-22 07:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jimmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously they hurt you til the point where you have to do some self realization. Love yourself and heal that wound. Time takes a while to heal those type of wounds. The next person can be the one who shows you another side of life. The way you overcome the pain is to find that person that makes you forget about what happened. So find that perfect person that treats you with care and respect. Most importantly, don't be afraid to open up to the next person that you love. Give them 100% of your love and they will do it in return.
Best wishes
2007-02-22 08:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by BloodLust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time. The best and probably the only thing that can heal you from this type of pain is time. You may never forget about this love, but you will have to tell yourself that it just wasn't meant to be. I'm sorry hunny, many of us have been there, I wish I had a better answer, I am sure this isn't something that you wanted to hear. Just pray. Go out with your friends and forget about them, you deserve better.
2007-02-22 07:54:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you will heal and forget but I mean you will never truly forget. Months and years will go by but the love you shared with that person will always remain. I am not saying you will never love again. Its hard to let go at first it will suck, but seriously keeping yourself busy and surrounding yourself with people who care like your friends and family will help. Eventually it will be at the back of your mind, and then one day instead of remembering how he hurt you and how crappy it got, you will remember the good times you had with him. Believe me, it is hard to do this day in and day out, you feel fake because you are so hurt on the inside but on the outside you force a smile. You can do it. Rely on your friends and family, they will always be there for you.
2007-02-22 07:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by Derek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time. And something to occupy that time. You will find out later that it wasn't worth the tears when you find that some one special or when your friends take you for a girls' night out with no one to hold you back. Don't let it consume you, because you will find that there is always something better. Hope this helps. I know what it feels like to lose the one you think you loved. But time heals all wounds.
2007-02-22 07:55:31 · answer #6 · answered by Meredith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Princess? let me tell you, straight out. If he really Loved you? He wouldn't have ever hurt you. Since he didn't Love you? Why would you wana waste your Beauty on some Loser, like him? Take your Precious Self? And go find a Real Man. Who'll treat you with respect. One that you can Trust. One that shows that he knows you are a lady! Be Sweet. Respect yourself. ` Cause this Guy, damn sure didn't!
2007-02-22 07:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you give it time. its corny i know but time does heal all wounds.
you can try and throw yourself out there with other guys but that is only a temporary fix and after it is over you will mostlikly regret it. you can try and throw yourself into work or drinking but again it doesn't really help for long.
the best advise is to face it head on accept what happened, cry your eyes out and then think about all the things he has done that don't make him worth all the pain. and then repeat the whole process untill it works
2007-02-22 07:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by MATTHEW B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will give you a better perception of what happened to you.The more time you give it the easier it will be to deal with it. In the meantime go out with your friends, talk things through with trusted confidants, if you get a fit of the blues remember life isn't fair but feel free to grieve the injustice of it all. Its a slow process but it works.Good luck!.
2007-02-22 08:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by cuddlyclaud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh. you are in the depression mode. Then, it's going to be anger, and then, it's just a bad memory. True healing only comes when you start having feelings for another guy. So, I recommend that you think about his bad attributes, how he hurt you, how he hurt your feelings knowing how much you cared, and start being angry at him and hate him for what and who he is...
Don't blame yourself. Blame him. He deserves it, I promise
This happends in the dating world. It's going to be allright; never the same, but allright...
2007-02-22 07:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by soosool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think a person that really loves you would hurt you. You may have loved them, but maybe they didnt love you the same way back.
Take time for yourself and some day you will meet someone that wont hurt you.
2007-02-22 07:54:26 · answer #11 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋