i like this girl and she talks to me but im too chicken to ask her out
i've went to school with her since elementary school and now we're in the 10th grade. she just bork up with her boy friend a couple weeks ago. what should i do?
2007-02-22 07:31:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would not rush into it. She just broke up with her BF so give her a little while. You can start by making conversation for now and see if she seems interested, if she shows you signs that she likes you then you can ask for her phone number. after a few phone calls you can ask her out to a movie or maybe a school dance.
2007-02-22 07:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by Queen of the Nile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there Bro, just take it easy and be a good friend to her. You dont have to officially walk up and ask her "Hey can you be my girlfriend?" all that stuff will work itself out later on. You have lots of time, trust me. There are going to be other girls for you and other guys for her. Take it slow and make sure she knows you are always there for her. Years from now even if you arent married with kids and all of that but you're still friends and have been that way your entire lives so far its something that you will never forget.
Even if she turns out to be the most perfect girl in the world for you. You need to have something to compare her to so that you know for sure. Many people in your situation get into a state of mind where they think that this one person is the only one that will ever love me and I them and without them they cant go on living!
The hardest part about being that age is the hurt is so intense when you break up that its hard to get out of bed and hard to think about anything else but her. It works the same way for the girls too. If she just broke up with her boyfriend, you need to stay back for a while. Even if some other guys approach her, dont be the competition, be her best friend and you will always win. Just make sure as a friend you always give her a hug and a peck on a cheek when you say bye etc.. so it doesnt always stay on the friend level. Theres a thing called the "rebound relationship" where you break up with someone and immediately get into another relationship with someone else. Rebounds tend to be there for comfort of forgetting about the ex BF or GF and not for true meaning. If you get caught in the middle of the rebound, the odds are against you and you can be hurt.
If i were in 10th grade again 2 things I would have changed on my outlook towards girls:
I wouldnt have taken relationships so seriously.
I would have been a better friend to girls instead of trying to capture them all for myself.
2007-02-22 15:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First give her sometime she needs time to her self. Then try to spend more time with her ask her maybe to go get some dinner or go to a movie with you. Then just tell her how you feel and what you want out of the situation. If she tells you she just wants to be Friends then just let it be you will have your chance just not now so be the best Friend she can ask for.
2007-02-22 15:38:10 · answer #3 · answered by Blake B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude.
i'd start by being her friend, she isnt gonna date some randomer. be her friend and when your ready to tell her, take her out as like a casual date not bf gf, then say something a long the lines of "hey i need to tell you, ive known u for a while and i want u to know i like u, more than friends, i just wanted you to know" or something, let her know how you feel.
good luck, yousif
2007-02-22 15:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by sam sucks balls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, wat u have to do is, try to get close to her, u know find out first if she notices u, than start to get her attention, than sooner or later ask her to go on a date, or tell her u like her, by the time ur done wit all dis stuff, she'll be right there sleepin' in ur hands
2007-02-22 15:37:35 · answer #5 · answered by Ad's In Da House 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she just broke up with her boyfriend, then she aint gonna wanna get with someone right away so try talking more with her dont go straight to asking her out, then wen she starts enjoying u and ur company, go for it and ask her if she wants to go to the movies or something,just to start things off u know!!good luck with her!!bye!!
2007-02-22 15:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to her ask her to a dance or something like that if you have a dance soon or just talk to her casual talk and maybe ask her out because i know i would love to be asked out by a nice sweet guy like you sound
2007-02-22 15:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by Pastinie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait. two weeks isn't very long and she's probobly still thinking about him. The last thing you want is to be her "rebound boyfriend". Be her friend first and wait until you know she's over him.
Good luck
God bless +
2007-02-22 15:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by Davis B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definitely tell her. you could say somethings like i know you just got out of a relationship not to long ago, but i was wondering if u would like to go out with me sometime because i really like you.
you should definitely tell her how you feel because if you dont she'll never know and she might like you to but ull never know it if you dont ask her out so go 4 it and good luck
2007-02-22 15:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by lilmissbritt_7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys r friends than you should ask her how she's feeling bout the brake up, should hang out more and then maby it can go from there
2007-02-22 15:35:21 · answer #10 · answered by soccerrocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋