2007-02-22 07:28:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her energy vibe. Usually beautiful women have a powerful energy vibe that is intimidating to penetrate.
2007-02-22 07:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by Youngboss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an age old question.....common answer..Most men do NOT like rejection and feel a beautiful woman would never go out with them so they just do not ask. True...
Which leads to the second "common" dilemma stating that believe it or not beautiful women sit home a lot because men are afraid to ask. Bullshit..
anyway here's a helpful hint:
My mom taught me the worse that can happen is they say no the best..they say yes. Take a chance in life or YOU will be sitting home alone.
2007-02-22 15:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by healthynow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of things... some men are insecure too, and sometimes the fear of being rejected by a beautiful woman is very strong... Also the fear of being played by that person.. There is also the question of character from the beauty in question..
If you are the beautiful person involved.. I would suggest you approach him and start a conversation with him.. it takes two to tango you know!
2007-02-22 15:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by JeanMa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been that guy that you are talking about and trust me the fear of rejection can run a mans life. I don't see anything wrong with letting him know how you feel about him. I'm sure that he is interested but if he has put his feelings on the line in the past and come up with no results it does tend to lead a man to just sit on his feelings and even though it's not a good thing that's the only way some of us can cope.
2007-02-22 15:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter complains all the time that guys who are interested in her become babbling idiots when they go to ask her out - even ones who have been her friend for years.
I keep trying to tell her the fact that she's 5'8" tall, blonde, has a penchant for heels, is a dancer, and carries a higher GPA than most of them combined doesn't help.
Guys fear rejection - and for good reason. Our egos are fragile little creatures that need constant care and nurturing. Until they are killed off completely by a constant stream of rejection and injury, they keep popping up and making us nervous.
I finally got over my complete fear of rejection by just assuming every girl I ever met wanted nothing to do with me. Once you go there - life is sooo much easier (and you get a lot more girlfriends!)
2007-02-22 15:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by jbtascam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you assume the reason he doesn't approach her is because she is beautiful? If a woman surmises that the reason she doesn't get approached is the fact that she must be too beautiful, then it may be something about her that makes her unapproachable. She needs to "look in the mirror", not stare at it
2007-02-22 15:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by jeninsocal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Fear of rejection.
2. Low sense of self-worth.
3. Lack of confidence.
4. Preconception that the beautiful woman either:
a. Gets hit on all the time and can have anyone she wants.
b. Over-radiates self-confidence, which is a buzz-kill.
c. Is high maintenance or stuck-up.
2007-02-22 15:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by jirstan2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how it is when you see a guy that is really cute and you think to yourself 'He's probably some type of playboy or is probably promiscuious'. Well, that's the same way men feel. When they see a gourgeous woman they get scared of the possibility that she may have a lot of other men or she's already taken. They just can't fathom a beautiful, smart and well-dressed woman being lonely...(I know that sounds dumb, but it's true).
2007-02-22 15:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by Brinee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a story many teachers told me about a past homecoming queen who couldn't find a date for prom. She was the most attractive girl in the entire school. Got dates every week. Was one hot girl.She did not find a date to prom!
She had the belief that only the guy should ask the girl out. She was so attractive every guy assumed she already had a prom date. Maybe they thought the guy she was dating was taking her to prom, maybe the guy dating her thought the guy who she was going out with the week after would take her to prom. I don't know how it happened, but it did. Every guy in the high school was too scared that they would be rejected and assumed she already had a prom date. No one asked her to prom!
2007-02-22 15:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because beautiful women know they are beautiful they would love nothing more then to humiliate a shy guy that push all his reservations to the side just to ask a pretty girl for anything.
2007-02-22 15:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋