I have always wanted a baby ever since i was 15 and unfortunately i have had 5 losses all around 3-5 months of being pregnant..Anyways my husband and i have been married a year, we are financially, physically, and emotionally stable for a child however i'm not sure if i want one.I don't know if it's because i'm scared ill get let down for the 6th time and have another loss or what..Apart of me would love to have a child but the other part is saying I don't know about it...What do you think?????I know it's not my hubby he is the only one i would ever want to have a baby with..so what could it be. Why would i be feeling this way after wanting to have a child since i was 15 that is like 6 years. Yes i'm young and no that's not the reason...I don't want to hear anwers that have anything to do with your too young, I'm married or you have your whole life to have a baby..I know that and i still don't care ok.....I have had everything checked and their is no reason why i keep loosing babies
2007-02-22 07:07:00 · 6 answers · asked by Kasja 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
if you are not sure then don't. but be careful, don't put yourself through heartbreak. some women can't have babies, some can. maybe your body is still healing from all the losses and you should wait untill your uterus is clean. i don't mean to offend, i've had miscarriages myself. good luck to you. i hope God does give you and your husband a baby someday.
2007-02-22 07:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by pwrgrlmanda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say your scared to lose another one.
I have been preg 5 times, I have 2 sweet little girls, lost the others. after the 2nd I said F this im getting fixed I dont give a crap im not going through it agin.
having a misscarrage is hard on you.
think of it this way. If you knew 100% that the next time you would not lose the baby and the baby would be totaly healthy would you say yes or no?
think about it talk to a dr about your past history. You should be ok and when you are ready to have a baby you will know it, there will always be a little fear but you will be able to get past it and try agin
2007-02-22 15:21:00 · answer #2 · answered by monkeyeatbutt@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why arn't you sure? There comes a time in a man's life, that children are necessary. especially if he's a the last son of his father, and happes to kike children, and has wanted one for a long time. YOu seem as if you're only scared and confused. But you have to give him children, (regadless of wether it's 1 at a time), even if it means hiring a surrogate mother. I don't know why you're losing them either, but I also don't think it will continue happeing. Just do it!
2007-02-22 15:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you, i would talk to a doctor. I think you are just scared of losing another child, which is complety normal. Talk to your doctor and find out why you kept losing to begin with. Maybe you can carry it to term if you figure out why you kept losing it. I think you should. Children are wonderful and you apparently wanted them at one point. I would talk to your doctor and get pregnant right away. Good luck
2007-02-22 15:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by marriedsoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should give it another shot see i always wanted a baby to !! but i am only 15 years old so i am still way to young but i think you should give it another shot !!!! Well good luck!!!xoxoxox
2007-02-22 15:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want one try try again or adopt adopting helps out and as you are having problems concieving it might be the only option you might be able to find a pregnant teen in your area who is going to put her baby up for adoption and have her make you the legal guardian instead of paying alot to adopt!
2007-02-22 15:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by Avaria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋