plus, I don't last very long
2007-02-22 06:58:34 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry, but some girls would be OK with it if you were really good at taking care of her needs. being a good dancer helps too
2007-02-22 07:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by smp1969 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This coming from a female (Shanes wife)....
I've always had this in mind and I till it to every female: It's not the size that matters, it's what a man does with it.... NEVER EVER forget that.
You can have 2 inches and still please a man as much as somebody who has 6.... For starters, a woman only has feeling on the first third (I believe that's right) of her vagina, so anything beyond that has no use in regards to sensation... The only sensation you get beyond the first ... lets say 2 inches to make life easy... is the sensation of being poked... not saying that's a bad feeling but it's not what counts. What counts is the feelings put behind the action...
And just so you know, most women will agree, even if they won't here, a man who can satisfy her in other ways other than penetration is more useful to have around ;)
2007-02-22 07:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it isn't always the size of a man but what he does with it. Listen very carefully. First because you say that you do not last long, you will have to concentrate on extensive foreplay to get the women to the climatic point. Then when you have sex with her, it will not take as long to get her ready and therefore will help you last longer because she will be good and ready. Also if you climax before a women, you can still help her reach a climax by stimulating her clitoris. Believe it or not, there are other ways to bring a women to climax other than the penis vagina route. Study the female body, read as much as you can about the subject so that you may become more confident in your ability to perform.
2007-02-22 07:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's actually a great thing. Men who are average per say is a good thing because that way it won't "tear" the woman up, literally. You can always slow down with things and depending on your age, they make medication for things like that =)None of this is a bad thing, and don't be embarrassed over it. Be glad! Men who wear women out won't have as much fun as often!
2007-02-22 07:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the best you can with what you got! Truly it's not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean. As far as lasting long, most men don't anyway. Make sure the mood is right with ample foreplay and attention to detail. Also what clint n said "fingers and tongue". You also could invest in a c--k ring. It helps you stay erect longer.
2007-02-22 07:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by eehco 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is your foreplay skills? You need to maybe think about kissing her lips a little more. I mean, kiss the lips on her face and OTHER places (wink).
In the meantime, you can fix your HEIGHT, GIRTH and STAMINA problems. You need to eat foods like wholesome veggies to increase your blood flow, because increased blood flow is the key to having long arousals during sexual intimacy. Exercise your PC muscles when you are alone and aroused (m*st*rb*te). Try to stop yourself from having an orgasm too soon by contracting your butt and your stomach when you think you're about to go over the edge. Keep doing that.
Get good hours of sleep and avoid stress.
Buy a few sex toys for your lady (vibrators, dildoes)
Maybe see about male enhancement.
2007-02-22 07:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing he can do, even giving good head sometimes doesn't compensate for the shortage.
You have to ask yourself if this guy is good enough to keep around for his assets outside the bedroom and if so find ways to work with him. Sometimes if he knows what he's doing you can find fun ways to make the sex good without him breaking your back.
2007-02-22 07:04:57 · answer #7 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The size is not that important if you are a great lover. Sex if usually about 6 seconds so the foreplay and afterplay is very very important. My husband makes love to me all day long, every day. Words and caresses are the way we keep the love going all the time, not just in bed
2007-02-22 07:03:39 · answer #8 · answered by TillieDillie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I miss understood you say package? I did date some one that a small one and he is been the best one I ever had so that should never be an issue....
2007-02-22 07:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my girl friends is dating a guy who is only 4 inches long and about 4 inches wide but she says the sex is amazing cause he only needs to stick the head of the penis in (about 2 inches) and when he's going at it the glands of his head are hitting the g-spot everytime and she'll usually orgasm within minutes.
2007-02-22 07:10:38 · answer #10 · answered by Jake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of foreplay. Pleasure her in other ways (finger, oral) and if you can, make her finish by doing those, before you have intercourse.
The not-lasting-long thing can be worked on though. You can eventually learn to last longer by having more sex and focusing on non-sexual thoughts during intercourse. Finishing yourself off before the date also helps.
2007-02-22 07:03:45 · answer #11 · answered by whattodo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋