My girl has been trying to get a job recently and she needs help from a guy I don't like him. They both said nothing was going on. Well, she deletes her calls, emails, and text messages and things. I asked her if I could be there when he picks up the application and she said, "no, you will ruin my chances, i'm afraid you might say something.." She gets so angry when I look at her cell phone. I know she deserves privacy but after 9 years, I should at least know.
Well he kept saying he would come pick it up. He told me everything was fine and that I wouldn't ruin her chances. Yet she told me, he won't come pick it up cuz I might be there.
What do yall think about this?
2007-02-22 06:56:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It dragged on for almost 2 weeks, then he finally picked up the application... I ain't sure what to think
2007-02-22 06:57:19 · update #1
This is a tough one to answer. I personally think shes hidding something. Now here is the flip side you are in a relationship you have to trust her. My answer for you is contact Cheaters the TV show. J/K but no seriously just trust her if she was cheating you will never know. So to keep from going crazy just play it out and if she really loves you then you have nothing to worry about. I hope the best for you though.
2007-02-22 07:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by Blake B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she has a "phobia" about her privacy or a secret to hide. As far as your "right to know", that depends on your relationship. Does she know she's "your girl"? Communication is critical.
And what's this 9 years? Do you mean you've been together 9 years and you still don't have a commitment beyond being her "guy"? Does she want a bigger commitment from you? If she cares for you maybe she's tired of waiting.
Personally I think the girl often gets the short end of the stick when a guy wants all the benefits of a relationship without a tangible commitment of marriage. Maybe this isn't the case in your relationship but if you love her, at least give her the chance for more than being just her "guy".
2007-02-22 15:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by aquaman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if she's definitely hiding something. I'd give her her space and you start doing your own thing and see what kind of reaction you get out of her. She may be sleeping with this guy just to get what she wants from him, but that sucks for you.
2007-02-22 15:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two really were in a good realationship you would trust her. Just trust her if she cheats on you it just shows you that when you get married you dont want a person like her
2007-02-22 15:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by sweet pea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u know that she loves then she'll never hurt u.. hope for the best.. and one more thing, keep her assured that ur with her so that she could never think of alternatives and stuff..
best of luk..
2007-02-22 15:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being unfaithful......and you know it!! Try to catch her "in fraganti", do not tell her anything about this of course....
2007-02-22 15:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mark N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOMETHING is going on.
2007-02-22 14:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋