2007-02-22 06:55:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, it's usu b/c women are the ones who want to wait longer. i'm sure if there was a guy out there who wouldn't drop his pants the first time he could and wanted to hold out, he'd be the one deciding when to have sex. but i haven't met one like that yet and i highly doubt many females ever will.
2007-02-22 07:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by whattodo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becasuse men are usually wanting things for the wrong reasons like one night stands, or to give them "something to brag about" etc...Who wants to be with a man whos intentions aren't sincere? I honestly have never had a one night stand, it was close, and then I realized what was going on. Then I put an ending to everything because it was wrong, felt wrong and I felt terrible. Women are in it emotionally, men are in it physically. If you're not in a relationship; it causes all kinds of problems.
2007-02-22 07:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women (not all) view men as sex-fiends, and we think that men are ready to have sex at any given point in a relationship. On the otherhand, us ladies feel that in order to have sex with someone, you must earn their trust and love. So if it were up to guys, you would be having sex early in the relationship, but girls like to wait until they gain what they feel they need.
I really can't explain it, which is why that really didn't make sense.
Oh and not all woman like to wait, I'm just saying that if your woman wants to decide when to have sex, it's because she may not feel that she can trust you. Or, she's just not ready to put herself at risk for STDs, pregnancy, humiliation, ect.
2007-02-22 07:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by jacquelinelise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because it's part of chivalry which for the most part, with a younger generation, is dead. It's the respectful thing to do so don't be an A$$ like 90% of men that only want one thing from women.
2007-02-22 07:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by COblonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time I decide and I hate that. I love when a man takes charge. I don't mind once in a while to decide but, not most of the time.
2007-02-22 07:01:20 · answer #5 · answered by art_girlt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then I would want sex all the time and get fired for never showing up at work. Then my girlfriend would get too upset to have makeup sex with me. Then I would spend all my time trying to convince her that I love her so she will have sex with me, and not spend time out looking for another job.
Then the cycle would repeat itself and society would collapse. Seriously.
2007-02-22 07:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You CAN decide when... just not who. Or at what price. There's aleways someone available, really... But really, it's 'cause women rule the world, always have, depite all their whining otherwise.
2007-02-22 07:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because civilization demands it, just as it demands the femenization of men, seen any solid warriors lately? now its even kool to be so-called GAY
2007-02-22 07:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by Alex L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the girl's are taking the chance.(Getting pregnant, etc.)
2007-02-22 06:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by Nic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is the law.... honorable law....if you go en get a woman with out her saying yes the is rape is no consensual
2007-02-22 07:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋