See if you can answer this for me. I will try and keep it as short as possible.
I met this girl online in 2001...on yahoo chat. She is from upstate NY. She told me she is single and we used to chat almost everyday and became good friends over a period of time.
In 2003, she told me that she had a son, which is fine but I had expected to know about it earlier.
We continued to be friends at chat...she told me that she would be visiting the city soon and I would get a chance to meet with her soon, she never did that. Around 2004, are chats usually ended with she having some kind of attitude with me. We wouldn't chat for a few days and then again we would get back at chat.
In 2005, she gave me her number but I never called her, that pisssed her off. I don't know why? but I just didnt like the idea of calling her up. SShe then started saying that she loved me...this was a surprize to me as we have never met.
In 2006, she told me that she is still married...yes, I was shocked as you are
2007-02-22 06:54:57 · 20 answers · asked by Han Solo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
unfortunately you've invested way too much time with this chick...its time to make a clean slate and just stop talking to her cold turkey...she should of been honest with you from the start...she seems crazy and dishonest. Online chatting is tricky...you never know what you're going to get. You will soon find the perfect girl and it won't be through a chat line. : )
2007-02-22 07:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you met this person online in 2001 and it took her until 2005 for her to give you her phone number that alone should have sent up a red flag! The fact that you never called her and never made the effort to go meet her is another red flag! What kind of relationship can you have just chatting online anyway!! Stay off the chat and meet a "real" person, you might have better luck!
2007-02-22 07:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wOW, that is a bit of a dillema. She seems to not understand what she wants. Perhaps...in 2001..she was not with her husband, or she was hitting a rough patch with him. Maybe why she didnt tell you about her son is because she was worried how you would react.sometimes girls keep things to themselves because they worry the guy wont like them so much once they have told them. thats usually the reason. have you thought that maybe she is leading you on a little bit. she might not be, for all reasons sake, but over 5 years she wasnt always honest with you. that doesnt mean she cant be a good friend. wa she married when you started talking to her in 2001? It is a dillema...i get what you mean about not calling her, perhaps she is just very confused in her own way, and isnt explaining everything properly, and that is why you are confused
2007-02-22 07:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by happysmileyperson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds to me like a first she wanted to be your friend get to know you and whatnot and slowly start telling you about herself like her son and later on that she was still married. I also think that she want a little fling with you wanting you to call her up saying she was coming into the city soon hoping you guys could visit then saying she loves you. my advice would be very careful around that one if you still want to continue talking to her sounds like she wants alot more than a simple online chat.
2007-02-22 07:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by Dark_Fire_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, another life lesson learned. You have to be careful with people you don't talk with direct in the physical sense. Anyone can play out their fantasies behind a screen and a phone so not just to you anyone else who is reading this. Be very careful.
2007-02-22 07:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I see a guy i like I generally smile at him and try this adorable, finger wave ingredient <3 possibly i will wink of blow a kiss (relying on diff. components of path) yet i'm no longer shy with exhibiting interest in a guy. I additionally desire to poke him when I greet him or gently hit him (very softly) If he harm me and that i'm mad, each and each time he seems at me or smiles at me I supply him a pissed off look, and thoroughly ignore approximately him. Or while he talks to me i would be bored stiff. Or I in simple terms might act conventional minus any hugging or indications of love. If he asks if i'm mad I likely say, "Yup.". ..i'm kinda a beyotch. >__<
2016-12-14 03:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear. I think this lady must be unhappy in her marriage and is trying to seek excitement elsewhere. I don't think she knows what she wants, but if you only wanted to be friends there was no reason not to tell you the truth. I think its good that you never called her, it could've made things worse. I think you should leave her to sort her life out, tell her if she wants to be honest with you and stay friends, she knows where you are.
2007-02-22 07:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by captaindarlinguk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! that is strange, maybe she is insecure in her love life at home and is trying to break it to you that you can't have a relationship like the one you have been having. Sorry that this happened. But hey! You guys haven't even met so it will still hurt but not as much as if you had really known her!
2007-02-22 06:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by Bree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to stop chatting with her before she tells you something else like she use to be a man. Unless, you like surprises.
2007-02-22 07:03:33 · answer #9 · answered by blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, tell you the truth she really wasn't telling you the whole truth in the first place, and she wasn't thinking when you two were chating , just find someone else.
2007-02-22 06:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋