girlfriend and I have been getting into a lot of little arguments over some stupid things. one of the things that we got into and argument about was that i never talk to her. well i did have a lot to talk about but she kept giving me one word answers so it went by really quickly. she basically gave me the cold shoulder and didnt talk to me for a few days and her friends got extremelly mad at her and so they came 2 talk to me. that happen about 3 weeks ago, and now i talk to her friends a little bit, well she told me that i flirt with them so i backed off, even though i didnt think i was. a few days later she was still upset that i had talked 2 her friends and everything and each day i applogized but it didnt seem to do anything. now she wont stop talking 2 one of my friends and everything. she doesnt ask me for help or anything she ask him. now she always talks to him, is she like cheating on me? should i leave her, or how can i talk 2 her? she just gets mad when i bring it up. help!
2007-02-22 06:51:28 · 5 answers · asked by trueblue0770 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Arg. What a frustrating relationship you're in there buddy. I hope it all works out. Tell her look I've been honest, I've told you every thing and now you treat me like dirt. You're treating me exactly the way you told me not to treat you. I'd give her an ultimatum either we talk and work this out or the relationship is over. You deserve better and she just has issues. Most girls do have issues.
2007-02-22 06:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you are dating a spoiled rotten BRAT!!! She must be feeling insecure with u'r relationship so she's trying to make you see how she feels when you do those things to her. Hense: U talking to her friends - Her talking to U'rs. Sit down with her and try to come to some agreement for the both of you - not just her. If she won't listen then tell her that if u two can't work this out then you don't see the relationship working out. If she cares at all that will get her attention!
2007-02-22 16:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, yes, I would leave the situation. It sounds more like a headache then a relationship you're in. If you've apologized and tried to make things right, it's time to move on. It's her and not you. If she's accused you of things with her friends and is talking to your friends "looking for help", it's time to get out. She's too immature and you could be with someone more mature and who has more confidence. Let me know how things go!!
2007-02-22 14:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I think you should break up with her. If it's putting you through this much grief then it's probably not worth it.
2007-02-22 21:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by countrygrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.
Leave her. She is immature and stupid.
2007-02-22 14:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jack Chedeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋