Feeling so down???

Question

So there is this guy that ive been hooking up with for over 7th months. He knows i have feelings for him but he doesn't want it to go any furter then just hooking up. I feel like we have "talks" all the time and i emailed him today to talk about how i felt..he hasn't written back...does this guy simply not care enough? and does he see this as annoying that I want to talk about my feelings all the time?

Answer 1

It's obvious,the guy doesn't want anything serious.There are lots of guys in the same situation(I'm not saying all guys are like that)He's just having fun with you.Some guys however reacts in a similar way(like they don't care)but can't show their feelings,they might feel in love but are afraid to say anything.I would like to say that about your friend,but that's not the case.I suggest you have a last talk with him,tell him how you feel and all,and let him go.You deserve someone who can express their feelings without fear and not play with you.Two persons are needed in a relationship.Let him go,he doesn't love you.I know it's going to be hard and you will cry but you will meet the right guy sooner or later.Take Care!

Answer 2

You are quite simply sex on the side for him, a booty call if you will. He will never take you seriously and any attempts by you to force him into a relationship will be met by stonewalling or he will leave. It is a result of him not respecting you and you not respecting yourself enough to not allow him to use you. The best thing you can do is end this relationship and find a healthier relationship where both partners can love and respect each other.

Answer 3

well, you need a guy that loves you enuf to listen to whatever you want to talk about but it sounds to me(not that i know anything about dating) that he is scared of commitment, which really is a big thing to a guy! just do what you think is best if you need to move on or give him space goodluck