Well the guys that i hang out with are my really good friends. But there is one that I have been messing around with is that ok. now hes telling his other friend that he wants to get with me shpuld i say yes or no???
2007-02-22 06:49:54 · 20 answers · asked by **L¡Z 88** 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do whatever you feel is right. so what if he's your friend, if you like him take that next step. If it feels weird, then don't do it.
2007-02-22 06:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by archiethewalrus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on your previous question you are almost 16 years old and over 4 months pregnant by a friend. You have real problems. I think you should stay away from boys for at least a year. Concentrate on having a health baby by seeing a good doctor every month and learning about and following the doctor's instructions and then finding and giving your baby to a good home, while at the same time doing well in all your classes.
The last think you need to get involved with during all of this is another high school aged boy.
2007-02-22 15:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the thing about turning a friendship into more is this... you have to make sure first of all that it's really what you want, and second of all, make sure that IF it doesnt work out, you think you guys can still go back to being friends, and things wont change between you and your other guy friends.
2007-02-22 14:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by slickpam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seeing as you are a Princess!
I think the best thing to do I first. tell him what is between you and him is only between you and him.. (but was all know he already has told everyone everything!!!)
secondly.. get him to spend a ton of money on you.. ask him to take you clothes shopping.. and ask him to buy you something you really love and is very expensive.. if he says no then dump him.. telling him that you know he only wanted you for sex... and you never want to see him again..
3rdly.... if you just want to have sex then go.. do it.. but be safe..
all guys want is sex.. and some ego attention from their friend that they are with you...or hooked up with you...
might as well get some nice cloths out of it..right?
2007-02-22 15:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by Derrick Zooolander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you play the role of a s***, you'll be treated like one. You started messing around with him, he tells his friends. Now he wants to take it further and who's to say what he'll tell his friends when you give him some.
Slow your role!!!! Don't be labeled as a hoe. Respect yourself or nobody will.
2007-02-22 14:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by hope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl its perfectly ok but the real question is do i rally like him or am i just feeling things for him because i know him to well ? If you do like him but for real give him a Chance and say yes no reason to be scared.
2007-02-22 14:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by Sirenita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... this question only you can REALLY answer... if you want to get togethor with this guy (if i am understanding you correctly he wants to date you) then go ahead... there's nothing wrong with dating a friend you have feelings for... especially nothing wrong if he likes you too...
just beware: if things go wrong in the bf/gf relationship, you can just about gaurantee things will go WAY whacko in the friend/friend relationship... so this is something you really can only decide for urself...
2007-02-22 14:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by sailor_aj92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys dont look for serious relationships with loose girls... he may date u for a while, but it wont last. u blew him before u guys were anything but friends so thatll cross his mind later and realize you're just a hussy
2007-02-22 14:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by SiC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should bring this up with your parents.
Do you think that they would approve?
If you are hesitant to tell your parents, maybe that is your answer right there.
2007-02-22 14:52:29 · answer #9 · answered by Jack Chedeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like him and know it wont ruin the relaionship even after u all break up if u do
2007-02-22 14:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋