my boyfiend who i love dearly is going off to war in a month and i have been with him for over a year and well my question is what should i do? wait for him and work on my schooling tell his return, or dont, even though i love him.
2007-02-22 06:36:18 · 20 answers · asked by Cyndul M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are many many men in this world. Some would be even way better than him. If he's going off to war, to trespass a weak country with lots of oil, causing enormous havoc, because Bush says so, you should dump him because he has horrible morals. Place some free personal ads, many of them, and get on with your life.
2007-02-22 06:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's doing something to better himself. I think you should do the same. I'm sure you both love each other very much. Relationships work better when both parties have something to offer to the relationship. So my answer is yes you should wait for him if you really love and care for him. That will prove things to him that words never can. Wait for and you two will grow stronger.
2007-02-22 14:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by Shay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u asking whether u should leave him or not? PRAY FOR HIM.....its so sad that he's off to war, a war that was started for all the wrong reasons
if u love him get busy with school yes, and and if u happen to come across another man then it was meant to happen
2007-02-22 14:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by zesty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY FRIGGIN GAWD.......
He is going to WAR and will NEED to know that you are here waiting for him. If you LOVE him wait till he gets back. Write him a letter and send him an email EVERY DAY. Even though he may not get them asap, he will get them and know that you thought of him every day.
Do your school and drop out of the socail world until he comes back.
2007-02-22 14:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by stratplayer1967 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him it's off!!!
and if..only if. you are not involved when he returns then..maybe just maybe.. you can see if there is still a spark...maybe!
remember the war will change him and warp his entire perception of life.. and not for the better!!!!! he may have severe mental problems and only want you for sex!.. be very very careful with this one.. I say end it for your own sanity and happiness... a year is only 365 day..big deal.. I have dated people for over 5 years and ... moved on.. when it was not good anymore... it's just a fact of life..
wish him well and tell him it's not fair to you and your life here...
and end it!
2007-02-22 14:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by Derrick Zooolander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, then why are you even asking this question? You work on your schooling, support him, send him packages, letters, e-mails, etc. He's going to have a very difficult time adjusting without having to worry about you. He needs to know that you're there for him. Good luck.
2007-02-22 14:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people find it extremely difficult to wait for someone like that.
If you decide to wait for him, be sure. There's nothing worse than thinking you're coming home to someone only to find out that they have moved on.
If you think your relationship is strong enough and worth the wait, then yes, wait for him to return.
If not, let him know before he leaves.
2007-02-22 14:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by frozenpancake582 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't drop a man because he is going to war. You support him and be proud of him. Your a cold hearted self centered
B I T C H for even thinking this.
2007-02-22 14:42:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for him. it'll be hard and you'll face alot of anxiety with him being off at war. but it would be amazing for him to come home and find that you're there. if you love him at least take a shot at doing this. hopefully he'll come back sooner than later.
2007-02-22 14:40:02 · answer #9 · answered by parveeahmed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, i know your position wait for him if he really loves you because all of the waiting will pay off trust me i went 2 years without mine and i am back with him happiliy engaged and i couldnt love him more so i hope i was some help good luck!
2007-02-22 14:48:16 · answer #10 · answered by brittany richardson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋