My 2 year old daughter used to love to go to her grandma house and spend the night once in awhile. Know she will not even go! Is this just a phase she is going threw? Does any one have any suggestion on how to get her to go to her Grandma house again! Serious answers only please!
2007-02-22 06:28:51 · 8 answers · asked by sprincess692003 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
my boys went through this phase with grandpa. Go over with her on daytime visits and stay with her. After a few visits together she may see everthing is ok again and want to stay with her alone. She may have seen something scary while she was there and doesn't know how to explain it and just doesn't want to be there at all now. It's just going to take some reassurance that everything is ok.
2007-02-22 07:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably just a phase. I would go to Grandma's house with her and do a fun activity there together (your daughter, you, and grandma). This will help her realize Grandma's house is fun. She probably has figured out that once you get to Grandma's mommy leaves and that's no fun for a 2 year old!
2007-02-22 14:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there someone there she's afraid of?
Is Grandma mean?
It could be a phase, or she could be trying to take over and run the show. Don't give her too much power.
2007-02-22 14:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little children usually have reasons for what they do. She may not want to go to her grandma's house for a reason. Her grandmother may have heart her feelings or not given her something that she wanted and it may have upset her.Ask her why she doesn't want to go to her grandma's house and you just might find the solution to your problem. Give her sometime and she will come around.
2007-02-22 14:45:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a phrase, but try to figure out that nothing happened ther whether w/grandma or someone visiting.
My daughter spends a lot of time at my aunt and uncles when i'm at school/work when i go to pick her up she throws a fit and doesn't want to leave, but yet when we are at home she throws a fit and doesn't want to leave there either - it is like she gets comfortable and doesn't want to change.
so i wouldn't worry to much -is she fine after she's been there for a little while.
2007-02-22 14:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by emery_sage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a phase, but who is the boss? Also is Grandma loving, or is she mean? You have to make it clear to your daughter that your the boss and when you drop her off at Grandam's house that she as be in her best behavior.
2007-02-22 14:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be going through separation anxiety ,try staying at grandmas with her for a couple weekends then gradually stay less and less.
2007-02-22 14:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be just a phase, or maybe something is frightening her. Ask your mom.
2007-02-22 15:15:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋