One is my ex of 6 years off and on.
The other we are great friends.
The other is a good friend also.
I know I could settle down with any one of these men and be happy.
How do I choose which one?
2007-02-22 05:36:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ex- we have known each other 6 years of course we are friends. we are close
the 2nd guy - we have been there for each other for bad things even when 1 & 3 were not. Converstaion sexual chem and friends & trust
3 we are friends we have fun togheter - and he is very stable in his career.
2007-02-22 05:50:12 · update #1
Its really all up to you and you should do whatever you think you could be happiest with, but I'd go with one of the friend's :-) a whole new adventure :-)
2007-02-22 05:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by that girl in the corner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need more information to give informed advice. With that said, I can easily tell you to stay away from your ex. You've already broken up at least once with him. So breaking up with him again in the future will be that much easier. Is that really someone you want to fall in love with again? That's a disaster waiting to happen.
Other than that, I can't give any more advice. Choose the guy you have the best communication with, sexual attraction to, and faith in (generally in that order).
Good luck. And don't rule out the possibility of finding some other guy who isn't one of the four you're currently thinking about. Never limit yourself.
2007-02-22 05:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by The B Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mia...Mia...Mia....You could settle with any one...but the real answer is: 1. Ex of 6 years .......Not....Never go back, he's probabley a person that you're comfortable with whenever things are not going right in your other love interest...but definitely not a long life commitment...or you would have never parted in the beginning. 2. Great Friends...Not so fast....whenever there is a lifelong commitment....mortgage, bills, family, real life drama,....it never works out with friends....sure he's great and listens when you need him.....but commitment takes a real man....not a friend.
3. Good Friend.....enough said.....
Mia your real problem is that you have love interests.........You are not IN LOVE with any of these men.....and settling down with anyone of them is not fair to them......YOU'RE NOT IN LOVE WITH ANY OF THEM......turn the tables around, would you honestly settle down/marry a man with three other love interest, and believe he could give them up, just like that ? You have love interest because they each have something different that interest you....but one day a man will come along and he will have all of your attention(day & night) for the rest of your life.......believe me you won't need anyone to tell you if you should settle down with this person.....your heart & soul will ultimely let you know.
2007-02-22 06:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by jeraf1957 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slooooow down. Take a look at what's going on in your life that would make you feel attracted to four different people. I'll bet each one has qualities you like. The secret to that is to find all four qualities in ONE person. It'll take time, but it can be done. Also, keep in mind that nobody's perfect and that you will never find the perfect person. Also, should you find a "perfect man", don't let disagreements or differences in opinion make you feel as if you'll lose that perfect person. Believe in yourself and take it from there... And good luck. By the way, what are those four perfect qualities you like? ;)
2007-02-22 05:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by coorissee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well forget the Ex if there is a pattern of breaking up it wil happen again and if marriage comes about it will end up in divorce. I would go with one of the friends. Which one? I dont know I don tknow them but you need to see which one you like better as a person in the long run.
2007-02-22 05:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by DJ C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. Just casually date them non exclusivly until you don't have to think about this decision. After dating all of them casually you can get a better idea of who you feel you are better matched with. You will find out who you have that connection with and ultimatly who you want in the end. By doing this you won't have to sit and think about who to choose and possibly making a wrong decision. You will know which one is for you (if any) and the one you pick can't be wrong.
2007-02-22 05:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can settle with any of these men and be equally happy, choose the very next one you see. If you see no difference in any of them, how is this even a choice?
2007-02-22 05:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the one that makes your tummy turn over when you see them or see them on the caller ID.
The one who knows you intimately as in the little things you like, the one who remembers your favorite color, your favorite flavor of bubble gum and what your favorite pair of shoes is.
Choose the one that you feel can complete you and help and support you through whatever life throws at you.
Good luck!
2007-02-22 05:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should first ask youself what u want in man. Then choose the one who have the most of what you want. Choose the one that you know in your heart will be good man to and for you. But don't lead them all on becouse men have feelings to. lol
2007-02-22 05:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only named three. You cannot be sure any of them want to "settle down" with you so it makes no difference. Besides, if you cared a lot for any of them you would not have to ask the question.
2007-02-22 05:40:23 · answer #10 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋