Last night I got to my boyfriends house and when I walked in he was sleeping and I kind of woke him up by saying "Baby I'm home"... It wasnt late it was around 8:30pm (cali time)...
It took him a while to wake up all the way and after he was awake he started kissing me and started to get on top of me, but I told him I wasnt having it at the time and maybe in a lil while will make love... He go off of me and went to the shower and when he got out I was laying on the bed watching T.V. and he never came back in to the room. So I walked out and asked him "Whats wrong" he said "You told me you didnt want me"...
Which made me upset because I said " I DID WANT ANY RIGHT NOW"..
So insted fighting with him I left because if he got mad becuase I didnt want to have sex made me think what else will he get mad at me for? And while I was leaving he said " Oh your just going to leave like that?" Like if I did something...
So do you think I missed up or was it all him?
2007-02-22 05:33:32 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not all him, but you need to be more careful about how you act when you decline something physical. Pushing away a significant other is the easiest way to hurt a guy's feelings and its much more devastating than a woman could ever imagine. Remember it takes two to have a relationship and the blame rarely if ever falls on only one side.
Sit down and talk to him about it in a serious manner and hopefully he will understand that he needs to not take it so personally just like you need to be a little more cautious with what you say next time. Just don't let blame fall on only one of you and most importantly, don't ever be afraid to talk your feelings/problems out.
2007-02-22 05:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by Joe P 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he was a f'in stud, you would want to be with him, right? Why are you wasting your time, you obviously aren't going to marry the guy. Are you just keeping him around because, like all other women, you like companionship? If that's the case, no big deal but treat it for what its worth and don't let his feelings get to you. Why do you really care how he feels, I think that's the question you need to ask yourself.
2007-02-22 09:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PFB? It's all on him, Baby Doll! You ain't gotta take that B.S. You need to take it to the Street. and move on up far away from Disrect Drive. And change your address to Admiration Avenue. It's just around the corner form Respectful Road. `Cause this Loser is never gonna live there.
2007-02-22 05:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Men... That is what I hate about the typical man...
Females: More likely to blame themselves.
Males: More likely to blame others.
And this is true.
What I see from that is he is trying to make you Guilty so you will give in. Just tell him you are Too Tired, not that you Don't Want Any.
2007-02-22 05:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i think you messed it up by saying not now maybe later.. bc when you say that it kihnda kills the mood whos goin to wana do it... after hearing that.. you shouldve just let him sleep...
2007-02-22 05:42:20 · answer #5 · answered by xswtxdrgnxgurlx 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You rejected him.
"right now" tomorrow, later, next week- doesn't matter. You rejected him.
2007-02-22 05:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you just hurt his ego a little, it will be fine im sure
2007-02-22 05:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋