my little sister is going through her first broken heart. i know we all go through it sooner or later but im dying inside for her. even though ive been through it i dont know what to tell her to make her feel better...
any help?
thx.
2007-02-22 05:22:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
"your better than that, you deserve better than him"
"you'll find someone who deserves you and loves you the way you should be....it's just going to take some time and maybe a couple more broken hearts but it'll all be worth it when that one man comes to you"
"your beautiful and smart, he's an idiot and really not that good looking"
2007-02-22 05:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old is your sister? Was this just a juvenile puppy love? If so, just console her the best you can. Try taking her out for a treat of ice cream or skating. Just spend time with her and explain that she's going to meet a lot of boys, she'll have broken hearts and she'll break some hearts. It's all part of the process of growing into a mature woman. Best of luck to you both.
2007-02-22 05:29:31 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon L - Gavin's Mommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, First of all I would sympathize with her and second you need to bring her back to her comfort zone. In other words, she needs to feel safe. Tell her that she is not alone and she is not the first one nor she will be the last one. Tell her that NOW she is experiencing what true life is and that she might probably be in the same situation more while she grows so she needs to find her way to face these things and protect herself from being hurt. Let her talk. don't talk too much so you don't sound lecturing her.
She needs to go through these things. it her the only way that she would grow up.
2007-02-22 05:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by Jay C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her your the time you had your heart broken first and how you cope with it and move on. Once you tell her about it, she will ease up and then you two can have a sister bonding. Who knows, it might even make your sister relationship stronger.
2007-02-22 05:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe take her rock climbing,bush walking,ab-sailing, bungee jumping or sky diving get her adrenalin and endorphins pumping get her to do something to boost her confidence by doing things she can be proud of her self esteem will go through the roof and she may feel better in herself, I don't really think there is much you can say that she doesn't already know she will just need time to heel all wounds but till then keep her busy.
2007-02-22 05:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by Kenny K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really does hurt. I just went through one around Christmas. You need to let her cry and get it out. She needs to move on as soon as she can. Men come and go and there are good ones out there. You need to support her.
2007-02-22 05:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by red1967 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her, let her cry on your shoulder, and let her know that you know what she's going through! There's nothing you can say to make her feel better; just be there for her as she grieves!
2007-02-22 05:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dating is just a game to many. that is why is best not to date unless you are seeking marriage and make sure the other person is too. broken hearts are always the end results.
2007-02-22 05:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋