all my friends are doing stuff with girls and i still havent even made out with one yet!.....what should i do?
2007-02-22 05:20:19 · 15 answers · asked by jake_25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be the "sheep" of the group. You don't have to follow what your friends are doing. Any girl who respects herself is most attracted to a guy who isn't just out for a "bang". Save yourself until the right girl comes along, you will know when the time is right for you. Maybe you will get lucky and the girl will have not had past experiences either. Then you will have shared yourself with someone in a more pure sense.
Hang in there, it's not so bad. Be proud of who you are!!
2007-02-22 05:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to do 'stuff' with girls, inorder to be cool. In fact girls, respect and like a guy who hasn't done 'stuff' with a bunch of other girls. Some stuff is to be reserved for marriage when theere is that permanent commitment and love. Don't rush things!!!
P.S. Check out Joshua Harris' books 'I Kissed Dating Goodbye' and 'Boy Meets Girl.'
God Bless!
2007-02-22 13:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by All 4 His Glory 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chill out! You dont have to experience things the same time your friends do! I would hold out if I were you for someone who is worth making out with. You dont just want to USE someone to get on the same level as your friends because that will make you a sleaze bag. Now you dont want the girl of your dreams finding out your a jerk do you?
2007-02-22 13:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by charityislove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what all your friends are doing! If it bothers you that much get a girlfriend if not don't worry about it. This is your life not there's you are not in competition with them. I know this sounds corny and your parents probably told you the same thing but if everyone else was jumping off a bridge would you??
2007-02-22 13:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by ShaunaMo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
depends on your age and state of mind. If you are not comfortable with doing anything than don't. Many times your friends are talking more than participating I'm sure. Don,t do something because other say they are. When the time is right and you are ready you will know. Until that time comes don't sweat it.
2007-02-22 13:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep doing what you're doing! Don't be a lemming - besides, how do you know your "friends" aren't lying? Women (girls) are NOT meat - they are PEOPLE and deserve to be treated with RESPECT. Believe it or not, girls actually APPRECIATE guys who treat them like princesses instead of whores!
2007-02-22 13:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by Romans 8:28 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take time to find the right girl the right girl that u love. always be good to them cuz if u dont bad things could happen in the long run
2007-02-22 13:26:39 · answer #7 · answered by tiggergrl1236 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't follow the herd just to be doing it. What they are doing may not be appropriate for them.
When you are ready, you'll do those things too. There's no hurry...take your time.
2007-02-22 13:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUSS RELAX BE URSELF DUDE, ITS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD UR DAY WILL COME ONE DAY. NOT BECUZ ALL OF THEM ARE DOIN STUFF WITH GURLZ MEAN THAT YOU SHOULD GO DO ALL THAT THEY DO, YOU JUSS NEED TO FIND A GURL UR COMFORTABLE WITH AND THEN ONE DAY YOU WILL GET TO MAKE PASSIONATE LOVE TO HER SO JUST RELAX
2007-02-22 13:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by DI'MARIO 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be cool. Your friends are likely lying.
2007-02-22 13:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋