we are studing in the same college...this guy is very friendly with others...he smiles with me & says hi im a shy person & when i see him i get nervous..we met one day on the way home & we talked about studies,the sport he is involed in, jus general stuff... i like him a lot... i dont know if he likes me or not... i dont want to get hurt...i pretend that im not interested in him bt i do this coz im shy & i dont want to get hurt if he doesnt like him.. wat should i do.. hw will i know if he likes me
2007-02-22 05:18:49 · 6 answers · asked by pompom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are making this more complicated than it really is.
But if you want to make sure, give him an excuse to touch you. That will tell you everything you need to know.
2007-02-22 05:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by Ricky T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt lightly, so he can tell if you are trying. If he flirts back it's the first step to him liking you. If you are already past this point ask him if he would want to study with you one day after classes. If everythin goes well ask if he wants to go out for a cup of cofee or ice-cream. Talk about films and books not JUST school. After a while he might think that you are a class-aholic and all you want to do is study so if he likes you he might lose interrest.
I hope everything works out well and remember that girls like us must stick together to get through are tough problems. :-D
2007-02-22 13:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something I have learned.......the hard way.......is that if you like
someone you have to take the risk of getting hurt; otherwise, you will never know. You will spend your whole life wondering.
Just take a chance........at least you will know!
Dont ask him out or anything......just make a point to run into him more often and maybe ask him to study together.
Good luck
2007-02-22 13:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is all about taking risk. you don't want to regret not asking him! If you really like him, go for it. so what if he doesn't like you, at least now you know, so you can get over him much faster! and think about this, everybody's been rejected once ot twice before, so if he turns you down, don't feel bad.
2007-02-22 13:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok here's thadeal i hav somethyn' kinda lyk that goin' on w/ me... and as shy as i am i juss decided to tell him and of course i wouldn't juss go out there and say it. i did a lil' "research" and ask 1 of his buddy that i've known 4 a long tyme to kinda c w/^ about us... and i found out he had told all his boyz he was gonna ask me out valentymes ... if he had tha gutz so don't b sluty but don't b too shy either b/c both r bad juss b urself if he lyks u u'll kno trust me!! it works!! i didn'tbii it either until it worked for me... wel good luck! b ur self and if he don't lyk u 4 that then screw him!!!
2007-02-22 13:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by me_love_s_o_s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him up and ask him to go down on you.... that should clear up any doubt in your mind
2007-02-22 13:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by Shrek'shandsomeidenticaltwin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋