My daughter is a flower girl in a wedding the she's getting her hair done for the day. Do I pay for it or does the bride pay for it?
2007-02-22 05:11:57 · 23 answers · asked by Supermom 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You pay for it unless the bride has said something.
This is a tricky area, I tend to think that having hair and make-up done should be the brides responsibility because its not a "necessary" item, its an extra that she wants done. But others dont see it this way and expect that if you accept an invitation to be in a wedding you pay for ALL your own expenses. And while I personally agree with this in most cases, I dont agree with the hair and make-up part of it because most women are capable of doing their own hair and make-up themselves, they cant however sew their own dresses and sleep in their cars. Know what I mean? But to your question, unless the bride has said something, be prepared to pay for it yourself.
2007-02-22 05:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the bride offers to pay, that's great. If not, then you pay for it. It shouldn't be that expensive and your daughter will look adorable. (I was just in a wedding where one of the flower girls got their hair done professionally and the other didn't and you could tell a huge difference, especially in the pictures.)
2007-02-22 14:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was the bride, I paid for my girls to get their hair done, and that was a nice amount of money......Although in the wedding I have been in I paid to get my hair done, my daughter is going to be in a wedding this year also as a flower girl, and I will be paying that too.
2007-02-22 13:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by buckeyefever7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless offered by the bride, the parent(s) of the flower girl should pay for the wedding attire, accessories and hair.
2007-02-22 13:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by Laughing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything having to do with your daughter's involvement in the wedding is your responsibility. You are doing it as a favor to the bride. If the bride offers to pay for it that's fine or if she wants a particular style or stylist to do her hair, she should be prepared to pay for it - especially if she chooses something expensive like Phillip Pelusi's, you could be looking at at minimum $80. Good luck.
2007-02-22 13:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You pay...Unless the bride offers. Check the Modern Brides Magazine websight.
2007-02-22 13:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You pay for it, unfortunately. The bride/groom have so much stuff to pay for you should assume you are paying for everything you need unless she says otherwise.
2007-02-22 20:05:34 · answer #7 · answered by Natalie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pay for it unless the bride has offered.
2007-02-22 13:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by mama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
expect to pay 4 it but if the bride offers then accept...theres no golden rule...depends on the bride....if u were her would u pay 4 it?
2007-02-22 13:15:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU pay 4 it. UNLESS the bride is a million aire .
2007-02-22 13:14:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋