I have a question why is that when you meet a girl you can call her every day and show that you are really interested my when we start called you, you vanish and act like little boys and say that we are too clingy. What is up with that?
2007-02-22 04:56:04 · 16 answers · asked by Green_eyes 69 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh ya can a girl sleep w/ a guy before you are dating and the guy still respect you enough to date?
2007-02-22 05:27:43 · update #1
It is pretty much one thing. "The Chase". Guys enjoy trying to woo a girl and getting them to be their girlfriend. Once that is over, then guys get into a comfort zone and kind of want to be alone half the time. So if you want them to keep at you then continue playing hard to get.
2007-02-22 05:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Marvel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all this might sound odd but when i had a girl friend i called her more than she called me and i broke up with her because she had sex on her mind all the time since than she has been with 5 guys and still have not find the right one. secondly if i will get a girl friend i will make sure that communication is open and clear which means i will call her when she is expecting me to call her i am not sure about the guys you gave phone numbers too but suppose if you would have given your phone number to me the situation would have been different because i get a girls phone number that is the only girl i talk to and try to build a relationship with
2007-02-22 13:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by khanaliimran 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They get scared. Some men will get afraid that they will lose their freedom and ability to do what they want. Men are a very unusual creature, they can and will change like that almost overnight. And men say women change all the time, heh. I hate to say it, but if he acts like that, move on, I'm sure there's plenty of guys that will not find you clingy and appreciate you. Good luck
2007-02-22 13:04:14 · answer #3 · answered by Steel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know you said guys only but i had to be nosey and to my discovery im going through the same thing i have a close guy friend who we're suppose to be building a relationship supposely and i was calling him not a lot but we would argure all the time he calls me last night after i havn't called him for three days and is so sweet and loving and kind and then says yeah thats what i need for you to chill and wait for me to call you and everything will ba all right , what kind of crap is that so its my faught he has a busy schedule and im just concerned about howws he doing we only talked for 1 minute 15 seconds and that just made his day maybe hes not the one for me?
2007-02-22 13:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by hollaatyagirlt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an easy one. The males that you or your friend is calling have other "prospects" or potential "prospects" to pursue. When you call, the male has no control on when the call would be made. The call could occur at a very inconvenient time.
On the other hand, when he calls, he controls the schedule and does not have to worry about receiving a call at the wrong time.
2007-02-22 13:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by Zombies R Us 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What you have described is a guy. A man won't do this; he will treat you like a lady.
Find yourself a man and avoid the guys (who can often be identified by sloppy dress, an unhealthy fascination with sports, selfishness, poor grammar, etc).
2007-02-22 13:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by Spookius Mortem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really agree of what you are saying.Cause really its depend all guys are not the same.Some like to be with you just for a while.But other are happy when they received a sms from a girls for a long periods of times.
May you have not still meet someone who will always emails you or sms you.
2007-02-22 13:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by vee 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is likely because you are dealing with a little boy to begin with, or at least one with a little boys maturity level. When I really am interested in a women than I enjoy her calling me and being close when we are together is just an added bonus. sounds like he is just a bit immature for you...
2007-02-22 13:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We wanna have you.. so we call but if you call, its like Damn! she just wont leave me along just for a second.. though were the one who calls.. just a guy thing.. try not to be too clingy.. not a good thing..
2007-02-22 13:00:43 · answer #9 · answered by Breaker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls i dont know what kind of guys u go out with,but u can call me anytime.i like thats grat having a girl calling too gl luv ya all
2007-02-22 13:02:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋