first I am not a young guy I am older than 25 yrs. but my question is when A women claims that a man is moving too fast and she wants to take a step back. because she is confused.. should he
a. stop calling her and move on.
b. continue to take her calls and slow it down-may loose her.
c. become busy too make her jealous and want him.
d.act uninterrested to get her attention..
2007-02-22 04:42:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would say that you should occupy yourself with other things...just make yourself busy and you can still take her calls but dont rush over when she asks you too..it may be hard but believe me she will begin to realize what she has with you and it will make her miss you...so i say just become a busy guy. then that way if she doesnt realize what a great guy you are then it's her loss and you were able to see what kind of girl she is before you really got deep in the relationship.
2007-02-22 04:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by stardust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know you like her, but do not want to overwhelm her and ask what it is you are doing to make her feel like you're moving too fast. Then LISTEN. Apply what you have been told. If you are calling her everyday, quit! Call her twice a week....If you are seeing her every day or even every other day, cut down to once or twice a week. And when you call, don't stay on the phone for hours....10 to 20 minutes should be enough, 30 minutes the max. Best Wishes.
2007-02-22 13:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by onecrazypeach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she says she wants to slow down, it means that something about that relationship is making her feel uncomfortable. Respect her wishes, but don't move on just yet. If she didn't want you, she would have said more than that. Talk to her to see what is it that is making her uncomfortable and respect her wishes in whatever it is. It may be that she has been hurt before and isn't really to let herself fall for someone or trust someone. It may be that she's confused and have mixed feelings about you and need time to sort them out. It may be that she doesn't feel comfortable being physical. Whatever. The only way you will find out is to talk to her.
In the mean time, be open to her if she suggests something to do. Back off and let her set the pace. Let her know that you will respect her wishes but that you would be happy to see her anytime she wants to go do something. By all means talk to her to reconnect with her if she wants to call. Don't go intentionally doing things to turn her away or make her jealous with another woman or turn cold. In other words, don't play games. Be honest. If you like her and want her, then just respect her wishes to slow down. Give her time to sort her feelings out and you have to wait a bit. That's what she is looking for. If you want her, then give her that.
2007-02-22 13:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by Elisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should continue to take her calls and slow it down-may loose her to what you want the relationship to be like.
2007-02-22 12:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by Daniella D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to her and talk it out. take it a step back if she wants to, that doesn't mean she isn't interested, it just means she needs to think. Just be there for her and listen to her concerns, and try to make her feel comfortable about the relationship.
2007-02-22 12:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither. Ask her what she would like to do and go with it otherwise you might lose her (and if you love her) it may make both of you sad. But also there are plenty of fish in the sea so don't try too hard!
^-^
2007-02-22 12:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he should: B. continue to take her calls and slow it down-may loose her.
2007-02-22 12:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
b, give her some room man. and dont freak out on her. i told this one guy i was seeing that it was moving to fast and he freaked. becasue he kept calling me nameslike baby, sweetie,hottie and all that jazz and it kinda made me feel uncomfortable. so i told him and he was like "blah! blah! blah!, i talk to all my girl-friends like that." which ws kinda stupid to say because that doesnt say much for him, but if you are really interested in this chick, just be polite and give her space. shell come around.
2007-02-22 12:59:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
b. CONTINUE TAKING HER CALLS AND SLOW DOWN
2007-02-22 12:56:20 · answer #9 · answered by Tania C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋