I am in my twenties and only became successful in dating less than a year ago after years of struggling. In the past half years time I have been with a few women casually. I was happy that I was finally able to do that and thought that was what I wanted...
Until I recently dated someone who is religious/spiritual and I think that is what I really want, a good woman not sex with different women all the time.
My hang up is that the girls I date are very attractive and usually very experienced with men. I am afraid if I settle down now, it will be too early and I will always have the feeling that I am not experienced enough. That she is more experienced than me. That I lost out.
I am way ahead of my friends who are in their thirties and ten years older than me, they are afraid to talk to girls and don't know what to do/say.
The question is do I chose God's path turn to Him and settle down now with a woman from church or play the field to get over my insecurity before marriage.
2007-02-22 04:39:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Do it God's way, you won't have regrets or be disappointed
2007-02-22 04:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by wd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a certain level of maturity to realize it's time to work with another instead of just working for your own needs. It can be scary and uncertain, but it sounds like you're now at that boundary.
If this woman supports you emotionally, makes you feel positive about yourself and what you can do, smiles when she sees you and trusts your opinion, then you have someone who could give you a lifetime of a loving relationship.
No, it doesn't guarantee everything will always be wonderful (like the richer/poorer and sickness/health part of marriage vows), but if you both allow the relationship to grow in maturity, allow mistakes to happen and enjoy the successes, and most of all to keep loving each other, then for crying out loud stop trying to analyze every last thing and just be with her. :)
2007-02-22 13:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ANSWER:
Don't settle down. Just because you settle with a girl from church doesn't mean anything other than you two will be attending that church.
You are simply not ready for a relationship. It's just that simple.
Stop looking too deep into it, because it's not complicated. When you meet the right one you'll know it. I've seen it happen too many times. there will be no worries.
2007-02-22 12:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by se-ke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Settle down with the one you got. Divorce is a very magical friend sometimes.
2007-02-22 12:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by byzantine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truthful then follow the path GOD set before you.
2007-02-22 12:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by Tribble Macher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray to God and wait for an answer. But If He have already gave you an answer, then do it.
2007-02-22 12:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already answered your own question.
2007-02-22 12:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by Fire_God_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell me
2007-02-22 12:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by => the guy <== 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋