6 months ago I started college and got talking to a guy from the second year of my course. We have a lot in common and talk a lot inside as well as outside of college. We've discussed everything from college work to emotional stress and he considers me one of his best friends. We even got a christmas job at the same place together and had a lot of fun. I'm not 100% sure he likes me in "that" way, he's a secretive person. I have very stong feelings for him that go beyond a crush. I want to tell him how I feel but I'm scared if he doesn't feel the same way, that I'll lose him as a friend. What should I do?
2007-02-22 04:28:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I will tell you how a friend of mine did with me...One day, out of the blue, he asked me if I was happy with our friendship the way it is, or if I ever thought that maybe it should be something else...When I asked him where this was coming from, he said he was just curious. I got the impression he wanted something more, but I didn't, I said I was happy with our friendship just as it was and two years later we are still friends. I wish you all the best...
2007-02-22 04:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by onecrazypeach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him how you feel or it will be a missed opportunity. I've been in the same boat and when you come out and tell someone how you feel it makes you feel a lot better. I've even been in situations where she was involved or just not interested but the response from them always made me feel like I did the right thing. They were always flattered that I even thought of them that way. So I say just be honest with him and le him know, he could feel the same way about you.
2007-02-22 04:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you rather not tell him and love him from afar, or tell him and perhaps have his love totally?
That choice has to be yours. But I personally, I would tell him and also let him know that I wouldnt want to lose the friendship and if the feelings werent the same, then I could live with that in order to keep the friendship.
Good Luck.
2007-02-22 04:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by cowgirlduchess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I so totally relate coz im kinda in the same situation well i haven't done anything about it so im kinda like dying inside my advice to you would be to let him know how you feel for your own peace of mind if nothing else....good luck
2007-02-22 04:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by Nokuthula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to communicate ur feelings without being scared of loosing his friendship.
2007-02-22 04:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regret from not following your heart hurts more than rejection in the long run.
2007-02-22 04:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he does feel pretty much the same
find out I think
2007-02-22 04:32:30 · answer #7 · answered by k eric b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋