It was 5 yrs since we gat married and ours was the love one.Now everything changes. I love him more & more day by day and he knows it very well.He says that he had a lot of work to do and so he was very busy & can't give me enough time.But when it comes to his side he had enough time for his friends and sometimes he spend some time with his friends and not with me.Even on sundays he won't spend time with me and goes for his work as he says and then calls me that FOR E.G i would be late b'coz of my haircut appiontment and i am with my friend.I wonder then why shouldn't he goes with me at that time.Is that means that he aviods me or he no longer love me? How do i get my lost place back?
2007-02-22 04:27:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im like that but im not married or anythin :: but the way that they be gone so long jus have u wonderin why is it always about someone else but not me :: soon ur gonna get aggrevted wit it and everythin that u say is gonna have tension in it :: what i do is jus let him do what he wants :: i would call maybe once 2 see what hes doin but if he say hes busy doin sum i jus wouldnt call back at all and jus wait on him :: itll get 2 him because he'll think that u didnt miss him or somethin ::he'll jus feel wat u was feelin:: i dont think that i means that he dont love u but jus tell him that u feel avoided and see how he reacts about it then take matters into ur own hand and go make urself happy! with our without him!
2007-02-22 04:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is back to an old routine he had before marriage. I would say that you should plan a romantic weekend or day. Either way make sure that the day is completely planned. Go to a place that you went to while dating or a totally new place and have a romantic dinner.
That will get his focus on you and him as a couple and might be just what you need to remind him of why he loves spending time with you.
Take care,
Troy
2007-02-22 12:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r possessive. With advancing age, business priorities change.
2007-02-22 12:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to give him some space
2007-02-22 12:32:34 · answer #4 · answered by iae121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋