a year ago i shared a bed w/this guy who was so sweet by comforting me while I was still bitter about catching my x of a few years cheating(they r mutual friends)nothing more had happened in the bed except for us cuddling.he was such a gentlman.I have periodically seen him within the past year,he at one time told me I was"killing him",but that was 8 months ago.I called him last week and was straight forward w/him by saying"you are eating me alive" he said it was mutual and he thinks im so beautiful and that he had no idea I felt that way,but he has been dating someone for a month now, so I told him he had to tell me to let it go and he said he cant because im so beautiful. I have not heard from him since, what would you do?
2007-02-22 04:07:39 · 8 answers · asked by kerri r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Must not be killing him too much if you haven't heard from him in a month. Let the reality of that guide you. Find someone else. And no, nothing at all to be embarrassed about.
2007-02-22 04:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by EGOman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not embarassed, but he DID say he was dating somebody else, you need to leave him alone, its not fair to his current girlfriend. He sounds like he is respecting the bond with his friend, and not dating you because you were his friends love for 2 years. Yes he said you are beautiful, and you probably are, but he has chosen another girl, leave it, and him alone. Take the hint, he has not called because he does not want a relationship with you, quit reading things in to his statements to you, dont kid yourself, he wants his current girlfriend. Although he finds you beautiful, you should respect his decision (and him beacuse most guys would "do you" behind their friends back) to not date you. Perhaps he thought of dating you at one point, but he decided to avoid it, and I think he is wise. He is being loyal to his friend, and you gotta admire that. You need to find another to date, and being beautiful is not all there is to being desirable. And you are not desireable enough to him to put up with the drama of losing a friend. Your barking up the wrong tree missy !
2007-02-22 12:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by kimmy3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully the reason he likes you isn't just because you are beautiful. You shouldn't just "let it go" if you feel so strongly about each other. Maybe he will come to his senses and dump the other chick for you.
2007-02-22 12:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kristin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have no reason to be embarrassed.there was no harm in calling him and being honest.if he has not gotten back to you after a week's time,he can't decide who he want's.i think you have given him long enough.find someone who deserves you more.
2007-02-22 12:15:57 · answer #4 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmh... keep in touch with him.
you two fedinitely have something goin.
next time he calls you beautiful, give him a nice smile and tell him you are really flattered.
in short, give him more green light!!!!
2007-02-22 13:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by aminnylabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,
Sorry to let you know. "A perfect gentleman" is usually synonomous with gay. If he hasn't rocked your world yet, he has no intention of doing so. Trust me, I'm gay. Been there. Done it.
2007-02-22 12:26:06 · answer #6 · answered by floridaguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get in touch with him see if he still feels the same then make your move.
2007-02-22 12:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by eudoxia24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you missed something good, i could be wrong though.
2007-02-22 12:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by aphotic nostrum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋