What should I do?

Question

I live in Italy and many couplkes do this thing were they don;t go out but all they do is make-OUT! It is practically like askins some1 out on a first date or something, really common! I just got my 1st BF and he asked me if I would feel okay making-out with him. I don't really know what to do for 3 reasons, 1) I have never kissed a boy before; 2) He is also my best friend and I don't wanna turn him down with the way I kiss; 3) I don't want him to dump me if I don't say yes. My friends say I should say yes since they are all used to it. But I feel uneasy yet anxious at the same time. The thing is here they also like to do it in-front of other people so they can show off. I just don't know if I feel comfortable kissing my BF infront of others and I don't know what he will do (tongue, no tongue, privatley or not). I need some help on how to answer him. Please don't make fun of this q or I shall report you!

I am 13 yrs. old and I have liked this guy since September.

Answer 1

well first of all, dont let other people, ANYONE, tell you what you can or can't do. live how you want to.
have a talk with this boy, tell him exactly how you feel. if you decide that your not yet ready, then he shall accept that and if he doesnt then f**k him.
if you decide you do want to kiss him, start out kissing while your alone. after you get used to it, it should become fun. i still think that kissing to show off and impress people is pathetic and lame. dont do it to impress, do it because you love someone.

by the way, 13 is a little young to worry about guys. you have a whole life in front of you. dont do things just because your friends do it or to be cool, do things because you want to.

good luck!

Answer 2

sorry too young to be kissing and sucking tongues hon

Answer 3

Your'e too young. He better get the point!

Answer 4

take things slow cuz u just going dosomething wrong