I think some people get it wrong when they say "Nice guy". I'm a "Nice guy" probably cuz i was brought up to respect everyone. On the other side of things, I'm adventurous, risky, kinda dangerous(to myself at times, motocross racer), and like to please my woman sexually before myself. Just cuz I'm a nice guy doesn't mean I'm boring. What's your definition ladies?
2007-02-22 04:00:59 · 26 answers · asked by whatever 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you to everyone that answered this with a mature answer. you are the ones who make the world go around.
2007-02-22 04:06:45 · update #1
You're right, just because you are a nice guy doesn't mean that you are boring. And there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with being nice. It is a rare to find a quality gentleman who treats himself and others with respect.
There is the good kind of "nice guy" who has all the attributes of good person. Caring compassionate, successful in personal relationships, and self aware/
And then there is the guy that's "too nice", the one that creates himself to be a doormat, lacks integrity and usually ends up getting stepped on in the dating world. These are the type of guys that the "nice guy law" was invented for.
So i say, keep being a nice guy, be happy with who you are, and the confidence in yourself will show through with everyone (especially ladies)
2007-02-22 04:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by PiaAntonia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you do sound like a nice guy and respect is the key word. Some people think the word "nice" means weak, push-over, or doormat. Nice means courteous, articulate, listener, humor, adventure, maturity, compassionate, adventuresome, a little naughty sometimes...I could go on. Hang on to this charm; it will not only take you a long way with the ladies but will be an asset in all that you do. Bless you. Maybe there are some "nice" guys out there!
2007-02-22 04:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are two definitions - one for Nice Guy and one for "Nice Guy".
A Nice Guy is someone like you describe - he is respectful, calls when he says, he is polite, friendly to my friends, kind to my cats, open to discussion and other people's opinions, etc. (The sex thing can cross over to not-so-nice guys too)
A "Nice Guy" is a man who is a pushover, can never say no, has no opinion, and lets people walk all over him. He lacks passion in his life. He will do anything for his woman - even if it means kiss her feet. He is boring. He doesn't have a lot to say. He agrees with everything everyone says.
2007-02-22 04:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by J F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me that is a great combination, usually the two dont go together which is a shame and also great that you recognize it within yourself. Anyways my point is that stay the way you are reguardless of who does what and thats an almost impossible request but try, also when you least expect it it comes to you, you know when your not looking. It also takes awhile to find someone you really have a good match with and to even know what that is for yourself its vary complicated and deep but only is learned thru experience and failures unfortunately and fortunately at the same time, make sense I hope well good luck Kim
2007-02-22 04:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a nice guy, even with the dangerous stuff. I like a bloke along the same lines as yourself plus a sense of humour - thats not to say you don't have one! Some men are 'nice' but boring coz they're not funny. A guy who's generous and thoughtful who doesn't need reminding of events or anniversaries is REALLY nice!
2007-02-22 04:07:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well usually a "nice guy" sounds like a loser, but my idea of an ideal nice guy does have interesting hobbies or adventures, can carry on an intelligent conversation, and can stand up for himself and his woman. A generous lover is also a great feature to have. It sounds to me like you are not that typical boring nice guy.
2007-02-22 04:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by Lowa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree- someone who is respectful not only of the woman he is with but to those around him. A "nice guy" is genuine and kind in his actions and is considerate and honest.
2007-02-22 04:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by orange blossom honey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A nice guy.....
opens car doors
buy flowers for no reason
tells me that I'm beautiful
pleases me first in bed
takes me out
thinks about me all the time
calls me
enjoy spending time with me
takes care of himself (outer appearance to please me)
kind to animals
kind to others
kind to his parents
respects himself (no drugs)
remembers my b-day
supportive of my goals
knows my needs and wants
A GUY THAT IS DOING ALL OF THE ABOVE IS NOT JUST NICE, BUT HE'S SEXY!!!!
2007-02-22 04:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by Inez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys have manners and are motivated. They're not the lazy couch potato with no self esteem. But I don't like nice guys with no backbone, people you can walk all over and cannot make a decision to save their life are a drag.
2007-02-22 04:04:51 · answer #9 · answered by csucdartgirl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My definition of a nice guy is someone that knows how to treat the women right
2007-02-22 04:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋