how to break up.... :( the story is really long but plz help me *x*?

Question

my boyfriend an i have been together for about 6 weeks now but the problem is i already started losing interest quiet a long time ago. he's doing his best to be a great boyfriend, he actually is one of those boyfriends every girls dreams of. he's tall, blond hair, blue eyes does lots of sport, is popular, he calls me every day, he texts me, asks me to meet up all the time, he kisses ok-good, he gives me all his attention. first i thought it was sweet he cared so much, but after the first 1-2 weeks it started getting annoying. his exes all loved that he was around them so much and called them all the time. but i just get really annoyed. i dont reply to his texts anymore, i dont pick up the phone, i dont go on msn anymore cuz he could be there. he goes nuts if i wanna hang out with my best friend instead of him. he told my est friend i pisses him off that i dont ever call him or text him. he cant accept that theres my life and his life. im not sure if i like him anymore should i break u

Answer 1

Yes I think you should break-up. Its only fair on the both of you. You shouldn't feel that way about somebody you are seeing so its best all round.

I know how you feel. I used to go out with a lad who did this - he wouldn't leave me alone and didn't understand that I needed my own space. I felt guilty about feeling this way because he was the nicest person in the world - nicer than anyone else I'd met. It was just irritating and I had to finish it. It's weird isn't it?? We tend to stick with the ones who pay us no attention!! Lol - Maybe as a women its good to get some 'chasing' in somewhere - although we dont admit it

Answer 2

I think the best thing to do is to break up, but dont "lets just be friends" coz that sux for him if he still like you. just say you want to hold off on the relationship, and still stay in contact. (even if you dont, same as just being friends, your not really going to be friends..)