ok so my boyfriend is like not showing me any attention. my dad just passed away and my bf was sooo sweet to me. like he showed me soo much attention and was really nice....now he just went back to being his old self. he hardly calls me, he's always with his friend, and well he just has no time for me. Wat do i do? how can i get his attention, or get him to go back to how he was?
2007-02-22 03:45:40 · 10 answers · asked by iluvmyadrian12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THere are only 2 ways to change a man - and neither of them work. Just be upfront and honest with him about what you need. Hints, tricks and gimmicks don't work with men. Straight-out, honest conversation works way better.
2007-02-22 03:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and let him know that if he doesn't start acting like a boyfriend then you will end it, see how he reacts to that! Or you can just break up with him. Are you sure he is not cheating on you? Sounds to me like you might be the least important person in his life, so if you don't want to deal with it do you both a favor and kick him to the curb..
2007-02-22 12:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by Kasja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be more mature then him...I would suggest healing yourself and finding a new guy a couple years older who can relate to loss. Being selfish in a relationship gets you know where let him learn his lesson the hard way he won't be expecting you to break up with him!!!
2007-02-22 11:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by esmccann2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Communication is the most important thing. You are still mourning for your Dad and will for a long time. You need him now to lean on and he is not there for you.
2007-02-22 11:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by Janst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he is still at a young age where he'd rather be one of the guys. Don't worry about it, go have fun with your other friends.
2007-02-22 11:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by Robert D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said that "he went back to being his old self"....then, you ask us how to get him back to how he was. Well...he is back to being himself..unfortunately.....he is very immature. You can't help him to grow up..he will have to do that on his own.... Sorry about your Dad....
2007-02-22 11:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by HENRY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could try an ultimatum. tell him that you need attention and that if he can't give it to you then you don't need to be with him. you need to be with someone who cares about you and your feelings.
2007-02-22 11:49:52 · answer #7 · answered by demonswt88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word...clingy, let the man breathe before he has to give you the "its not you its me" speech.
2007-02-22 11:48:57 · answer #8 · answered by TheChaz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
juss tell him how you feel and threaten him that u`ll find another boyfriend if he doesn`t call....trust me i tried it it worked!!!!!
2007-02-22 11:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by babeschick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U SHOULD TALK TO HIM ABOUT WHAT U FEEL
2007-02-22 11:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by PUPPY LOVE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋