How do i get my ex-girlfriend to know that what she is thinking is not what things actually were?

Question

We were going out in college for 3 years. We had are ups and dows like any other couple. She is more on the sensitive, secretive and mysterious side. She is a very deep believer in her religion (christianity) and at times i used to feel that her family are kind of religious fanatics which is making her one. Iam a Hindu. Despite that we went out for 3 years. College got over and before leaving our campus(away from both of our hometowns) i told i still wanted to continue our relationship. She told me hesitantly but surely that she is with me. Once i got back home i felt a lot of negetive pressure from my sister and told i wanted to end things. After telling her that on phone i immediately realised i didnt want to do what i told her. I wanted to be with her. I have been trying to tell her that for the past 9 months now. She blames me for the whole breakup when there were several times she wanted to end things in 3 years. But i never reacted the way she has.

Answer 1

She will continue to blame you..are you prepared to live the rest of your life that way?

Is it worth the emotional stress that she gives you to continue a relationship where there is clearly little trust and great amounts of blame?

Just because you have time invested in this relationship doesn't mean that it has to continue.

You need to clearly look at what is best for your mental health in the long run.

Answer 2

well sometimes it take alot for people to take it when you are together with each other for so long. girls always take it diffrent though then guyz. try talking to her for real in a serious talk or meet her soon and talk to her face to face because sometimes she could act like she is mad but for real she is very upset and hurt inside