When saying goodbye or hi to each other,
my friends ( that are girls) and I hug each other; sometimes we kiss our cheeks. Now my boyfriend thinks that I am lesbian because of this and it isn't true, I am NOT a lesbian! I tried to explain to him that those are only friendship hugs, but he won't believe me. What should I do, advice please?
2007-02-22 03:24:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your boyfriend is really insecure of you. It is normal between friends to hug and kiss on the cheek, that doesn't make you a lesbian. He should be more confident.
2007-02-22 03:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by Naias ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is a sign that he really loves you; he is so protective of you and jealous that he won't even let you kiss your girls. He needs to give you space and let you live your life. If you were a flat-out lesbian you wouldn't be going out with him now, would you?
2007-02-22 03:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by SOS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is very immature. You can see that greeting on the
TV, at weddings, funerals, family reunions, class reunions ets. We
belong to a card group and meet once a month and that's how the
gals and guys greet the women. He needs a wakeup call. This is
very normal and much better than a hand shake.
2007-02-22 03:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by RIKKI LEE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes retarded. once I had a gf that replaced into bi, you think of that stricken me in any respect? fairly no longer. the bigger concern right it fairly is he's doing issues on objective so which you get jealous? And it kind of sounds like he's attempting to beat you down mentally so he can administration you. yet this is an entire nother deal. He ought to no way be mad at your remark, it shows he lack of self assurance, and that i dont see why a slender hazard at a 3some is a few thing to be mad approximately, im in simple terms sayin ;-)
2016-10-16 06:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by dudik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's not the fact that he thinks you are a lesbian, maybe he's just hoping for some future girl-on-girl action?
I myself am not into hugging and touching other people, other than family or a bf, but it's not uncommon, and many younger people do it nowadays.
2007-02-22 03:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Does he not hug YOUR friends at all? Why is that any different? I think you need to tell him to grow up OR wishful thinking (whichever is the issue), in so many words.
2007-02-22 03:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, my. He's either lacking in the brains department or wishful thinking. Explain it once more. If it's affecting your relationship, then find a smarter mate. Sorry for the harsh advice. Good luck.
2007-02-22 03:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by SA16 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dude i am very close with my friends and we hug all the time and me and my best friends kiss on the check and my very best friend kiss on the lips not making out or anything but im not a les its juss how we are because we are very close.
2007-02-22 03:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Justinee X3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is he slow? maybe he grew up with a cold family and doesn't know the difference between a intimate hug and kiss and a friendly one
2007-02-22 03:28:20 · answer #9 · answered by La Princesa 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well he must have a problem w/ u huging and kissing them but i dont see why its just a way 4 us girls to show our love to eachother
if he doesnt delieve you i think you should dump him cause it aint right to call you girlfriend a lesbian
2007-02-22 03:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by omscrazycort 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋