I am a fun person and I like laughing and having a good time. Most of the time I have a smile on my face. The thing is, I don't think my boyfriend likes this.
He tells me: Why do you laugh all the time? The fact that I start laughing after he says that doesn't help much...
I don't know if I am nervous around him (never was before) or if it is something else, but he thinks I am really unserious because I laugh and smile a lot after he says something. He asks me, What is so funny? and I just don't answer him.
What is wrong ith smiling? HELP, what should i do about this?
2007-02-22 03:11:52 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it dont really seem like hes your type....you shouldn't have a b/f just to have one...if there is no connection then why are you still with him...there are A LOT of men out there that would love a fun loving chick like yourself.....move on
2007-02-22 03:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends laughing is great when it is at the approriate time eg when something funny is happening or when someone has said something funny,
But laughing for no good reason like when your boyfriend is talking seriously to you sounds a bit loopy to me it would be even worse if you were getting down to it in bed.
Maybe you do have a nervous laugh have a little think about it or ask your boyfriend why he has a problem with you laughing. good luck and keep smiling xx
2007-02-22 03:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you are a very upbeat and lighthearted person, congratulations. Too many people in this world are too serious. Sit down and talk to your boyfriend about this and find out what really bothers him. Sometimes if you laugh at an inappropriate time that wouldn't be good, but if you are this way generally he probably liked it about you when you first met. Maybe you too don't really click together. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-02-22 03:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by tersey562 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with smiling or laughing, that is just showing that you are a happy person. He needs to realize this and that this is your personality. If he does not like it and is not willing to accept it, then I hate to say it but maybe he will never accept it and you need to move on.
2007-02-22 03:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex had self confidnce problems and was just an unhappy person. He was always mad because I was happy. Not sure how to fix it... I guess maybe ask him if it bothers him and why if it does. Maybe he thinks your laughing or smiling at the wrong times. Or maybe he just doesn't get it. IF he can't understand your happy and accept it, maybe it isn't meant to be.
2007-02-22 03:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK LISTEN TO ME OKAY !!! I HAD THE SAME SITUATION WHEN ME AND MY BF GOT TOGETHER I WAS ALWAYS HAPPY I LAUGHED AT EVERYTHING I JUST DID WHO KNOWS WELL IN THE RELATION WHILE TIME FLEW BY I DIDNT LAUGH AS MUCH AS I DID I STARTED GETTING SERIOUS YOU KNOW GROWING UP MY BF STAYED THE SAME BUT HE STARTED ASKING ME HOW COME YOU DONT SMILE ANY MORE OR LAUGH LIKE YOU USE TO I SAID WELL MAN FIRST YOU HATED IT WHEN I LAUGHED ALL THE TIME NOT WOU WANT ME TO DO IT BELIEVE ME THEY WANT YOU TO BE HAPPY I JUST WISH I COULD GO BACK TO MY OLD SELF YOU KNOW! DONT LOSE HOPE YOUR DOING GREAT
2007-02-22 03:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by SANDIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds like he doesn't want to see you happy, and in a relationship that's not a good thing. There is nothing wrong with you and i think its wonderful that you are soo happy i think everyone should be more like you in that case. if you feel nervous around him let him know this and help him understand that you don't think every thing is a joke and you do take him seriously.
2007-02-22 03:24:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothings wrong I smile all the time and laugh to maybe your bfs kinda grumpy
2007-02-22 03:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by Cool_Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is very insecure i guess he confuses your out going personality for you being a tease or a flirt in would rather have u quiet in not say much
2007-02-22 03:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by njpinkprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. It's him that has the problem. If he doesn't like the fact that you like to laugh, find another bf that does.
2007-02-22 03:15:06 · answer #10 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋