If your soul mate died early and you met someone else, who would you be with in the afterlife??

Question

What I mean is say for example you met the man/woman of your dreams shared everything and planned to spend the rest of your life with them and be buried with them etc. if they died for some terrible reason early on and later down the line you met someone else and fell madly in love with them who would you be buried with and would your first love still be waiting for you at the pearly gates?
Id like your thoughts please.xx

Answer 1

no one could ever replace my wife and if i lost her i know without a doubt i would be lost

Answer 2

The part about if you will see your soul mate at the pearly gates is clearly defined in the gospels. As seen in Luke (also, Mark Ch 12:18-27, Mathew 22:23-33 exact same passage as Mark) Jesus specifies that upon death we will no longer be focused on our earthly wife, but we will be like the angels and focused on Praising God and his awesome power. As far as where you are buried I would say have all three bodies cremated in order to be kept together. This just scratches the surface.

Answer 3

I found this, thought it answered the Q well:

One day a group of Sadducees approached Jesus with a question about life beyond the grave. The Sadducees were members of the priestly party who were very conservative in their theology. Their scriptures consisted only of the first five books of the Old Testament--those books attributed to Moses. Unlike the Pharisees they did not believe in the resurrection of the dead or angels. Neither did they believe in future punishments or rewards.
They believed that when the body died so did the soul. Since there was no mention of the dead being brought back to life in the first five books of the Bible, they concluded that there was no such thing. They were not the least bit open to Jesus' teachings. In fact, they were trying to trap him. They wanted to embarrass him--to discredit him and expose him as a fraud.

They brought Jesus a complex riddle. If a man married and died before he had any children, it was the custom of the day for his next oldest brother to marry his widow. In their riddle the Sadducees had the widow marry a man who then died, then his next oldest brother, who died, then the next, until she had married and buried seven brothers. "In the resurrection," they asked Jesus, "whose wife will the woman be?" Obviously, the Sadducees hadn't asked this question for edification. They didn't even believe in a resurrection!

The Sadducees' question was a test. It was a trap. Jesus, though, saw this as an opportunity to set the record straight. In heaven, he explained in verse 36, there is no need for marriage, "because they are like angels and are children of God."

I believe, in heaven, we will know our family and friends, but heaven will be more wonderful than our human relationships.

Answer 4

Yea but things like that really don't matter after you have died, so I don't know why a person would want to stress out about them why they are living. First, who cares where your body is buried your not in it and I'm sure the dead guys don't care, cuz they're not in theres. And Second, we don't know 4 sure what happens but if you are worried about some crazy love triangle going on up in heaven then you can know now that that's not gonna happen. You will all love each other and you will all get along, and that's just the way it is. No worries.

Answer 5

My mum died 2 years ago and my dad is now with someone else. I'm not saying this other woman is another "soul-mate", but he seems very happy. My problem is that I dont want to think of my mum being lonely in the afterlife and seeing my dad parading round with this other woman. On the other hand this lady is a widow, so what about her husband? Unless my mum and him have plotted to get them together! I know this isnt really an answer, but i'm pleased to know that i'm not the only one who thinks about these things!

Answer 6

If your soulmate passed away why would you want someone else?? Been that other person was put through hell with he was my soulmate etc etc always comparin which you'll never live up to because you only think of the good times as is human nature , so if madly in love with someone else they weren't your soulmate...? Maybe wrong but she had even bought plot next to him in 2 fer 1 deal!!!!! you can move on with life but someone's soulmate will be there always if you comparin new guy be fair

Answer 7

There can in hassle-free terms be one soul mate. nevertheless marrying back is now and back permissible by utilising GOD's want, this is using the fact the former considerable different became by no skill HIS selection for you. The deep friendship with the main appropriate considerable different will deepen for the duration of Eternity, yet would be transferred right into a marriage in which you 2 are maximum suitable buddies no longer of two genders, yet entered greater completely into the certainty of the human beings of GOD as a time-honored entire, by way of fact the Bride of CHRIST, to WHOM all alike will proportion an analogous bond with, as siblings with a single maximum suitable chum and father or mom. however the intensity of love in a marriage from GOD became the commencing up of an eternal friendship, and what commencing place CHRIST has ordinary, will final continuously. however the mode of friendship would be greater advantageous than in a sexual relationship, as in a mundane Marriage. Earthly Marriage and the sexual bond in it is going to in Eternity be as an infantile component to the previous, no longer needed, yet regarded as having been maximum appropriate in its time.

Answer 8

Even though i had found some-one else i would still want to be with my first true love! He would have been taken from me not by choice but by chance. No matter who this new guy was i would have to spend my after life with the guy i lost! Something that special won't go away but you can get replacements similar to what you had! Being reunited would be the reason who me to die for!

Answer 9

Death annuls marriage.
Those resurrrected --at least to heaven (vs earthy life)-- do not marry. Spirit creatures don't have sex, nor do they procreate.

23 On that day Sadducees, who say there is no resurrection, came up to him and asked him: 24 “Teacher, Moses said, ‘If any man dies without having children, his brother must take his wife in marriage and raise up offspring for his brother.’ 25 Now there were seven brothers with us; and the first married and deceased, and, not having offspring, he left his wife for his brother. 26 It went the same way also with the second and the third, until through all seven. 27 Last of all the woman died. 28 Consequently, in the resurrection, to which of the seven will she be wife? For they all got her.”

29 In reply Jesus said to them: “YOU are mistaken, because YOU know neither the Scriptures nor the power of God; 30 for in the resurrection neither do men marry nor are women given in marriage, but are as angels in heaven. " -- Matthew 22:23-30

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For more details ...

The Hereafter--Where Will It Be? :
- Heaven, Earth, or Both?--How? http://watchtower.org/e/20001001/article_01.htm

Answer 10

Interesting theological question (hope you don't mind if I pinch it next time someone religious comes to my door - I'd love to know what answer they'll give!).

I personally don't believe in god, or heaven so from my own personal perspective I don't believe that you go on to share an afterlife with anyone.

However... I do believe that love is everlasting, so maybe each person goes to their own personal version of heaven where they are with the one person or people they truely love/d - maybe there are lots of versions of heaven so that everyone is happy.

I'd also be tempted to ask - how do you know that one of the people is your soul mate, and the other one isn't? I mean it's possible to love different people in different ways, and love them just as much, so perhaps at one time person a is your soul mate, but later in your life, person b is.

Answer 11

WOW you do some deep thinking don't you???? I think that when you reach those gates you are gonna be with everyone you love that went before you. And on the whole buried thing, thats y I want to be cremated.