It wouldn't be bad if they were just casual friends, but when she comes to visit, he drops what he's doing to be with her and goes to spend the weekend with her from time to time. I don't like her, she's a bad influence on him and she knows how to manipulate him and she doesn't care that I'm even around and does whatever she can to get her and my boyfriend to be out alone. He knows how I feel about her and doesn't care that it hurts me when he sneeks off to be with her and lies to me about it. What should I do?
2007-02-22 02:55:57 · 17 answers · asked by robotchic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, first of all i think you should take a different approach, like you love him so he must see some good quality in her so look for it, tr to get along with her, I know it will be hard but this is something you have to do' invite her to do things with you, and i mean alot and make sure you have fun the both of you, and then tell him hey your right she is so kool, trust me he wont like it and will slow down with her, or he will l like it and you all will get to like each other or, plan b' if that dint work then hey!!! come on you give him something she don't' hello.... when she makes plans you make better ones(wink) and if that dint work then, gfriend something is going on between them and I wouldn't put up with that. Noway no how! hey hoped i helped and good luck!!!
2007-02-22 03:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him like a "hot" potato. He is not worthy of your love. If he calls himself your boyfriend, but goes off with another girl, he is only fooling himself and trying to fool you too. Find a good guy, they are out there, and they will want to be sneaking off with you not with some other girl. Look at yourself, realize you deserve the best, and dump him
2007-02-22 10:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don't think that you should worry about it. show your boyfriend that you are mature and understand that he has a friend that is a girl, this will make it so that he wont lie to you, and so that he will feel less of a need to hang out with this girl. most guys if ppl tell them no, they just wanna do it more. so try to be understanding of your b/f friendship
2007-02-22 11:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear...
you gotta understand that you have lost this man.
the girl has definitely taken your space in you man's life.
i dont mean to be harsh but its the truth.
if she knows how to manipulate him and he heeds to her calls.
it only means h really wants to be with her. even when opposite sex are friends, they dont joke with their partners and the friend either male or female knows that the other has a partner.
in your own case, he drops things to be with her...he even spends weekends with her... please what does he do with you.
you gotta wake up gal and dont let this guy continue to deceive you. best of luck dearie...
2007-02-22 11:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by aminnylabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it to him. Get your male friend to pick you up, or make excuses that he needs to spend the weekend with you... if you current guy doesnt get thie picture... maybe you need to just leave lying dogs lie.
2007-02-22 11:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by c_leoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need someone who lies to you. If he is a decent person, he needs to be honest about his friendship with her, and reassure you that this is all it is. Has your dislike of her pushed him into a corner? try and talk about things honestly. Above all, keep your dignity and self-respect.
2007-02-22 11:00:52 · answer #6 · answered by lornapips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First change the word from boyfriend to "guy who plays me constantly and I can't see it" and you will get your answer.
2007-02-22 10:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by Relax Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump Him, when he ask why, explain to him. If He was your real boyfriend he would decide. If the girl was his real friend she would lay off alot.
2007-02-22 10:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by Gyasi M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him do it and break up with him if you cant deal, cause hes gonna do it anyway, and it seems like she was there first, which means shes not going anywhere. Tough break.
2007-02-22 10:59:37 · answer #9 · answered by ashleynicole452 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well u have 2 choices you can dump his *** or you can try to catch him by saying i want to have a 3sum with her and if he says yes and u dont actually want to then dump his *** but if u would try it then do it and make the best out of it
2007-02-22 10:59:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋