Yeah, I know karma is a &^&*^ but this guy and I have really made a connection. I like him and I know he like me but on the other hand he was just "close friends" with my ex-best friend...I feel bad b/c it only started out as him and I being friends but now we are staring to get closer....to make it even worse he actually per posed to her 3 years ago..Im stuck b/c he is a really nice guy and we have so much in common but if my ex-best friend ever found out she would really be hurt....Im so confused, i haven’t talked to him in two days and now he thinks I don’t want to be with him anymore...plz help what should i do?
2007-02-22 02:53:58 · 4 answers · asked by Bee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she was your current best friend, then I'd say, stay away from him.
But she is no longer a part of your life, and they are not married, not dating, and she would not have the right to keep from having a girlfriend.
She needs to get over it and find her own boyfriend.
Call him, you never know, he could end up being your lifetime partner.
2007-02-22 02:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is your "ex-best friend" an ex? Are you still friends, or do you talk to each other at all? If you respect her feelings about it, then it would be good to talk to her and let her know you're not trying to hurt her.
But I'd say it's more on the guy. If he proposed to that girl a while back, does he still harbor feelings for her? Did he know that you & she were best friends, and why is he now pursuing you? Definitely have a real conversation with him about her, and see where his head is.
2007-02-22 11:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by kevness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I think this is kind of wrong. However, if she is only your ex-best friend then why are you so concerned? She is your ex-bestfriend for a reason right? Did she do something to you, or have you been a similiar situation as this that made you two end your friendship? I do find it weird for him to be interested in his ex-girlfriends (potential fiance's) girlfriend, and vice versa. This is a tough one. If you really care about you ex-bestfriend though, then think about whether it is worth hurting her or not.
2007-02-22 11:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this deal with your friend and him was a long while back, then I would talk to my friend and get her opinion. Maybe she did not take it as serious as he did. But communication with your friend would be best!
2007-02-22 10:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by CityGirl_loveselvis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋