why do people give there child away then expect to get him/her back when she wants??

Answer 1

I don't know, but they should not allow it. Once you give your child up, you should not be able to get them back because you are just messing with the childs head and messing them up and also now you are hurting another family that got attached to the baby. People need to really understand what they are doing before they do it and know that they decision is final. A child is not something you can have when one minute and then decide the next you don't want them, once you give birth it is for life.

Answer 2

I am not sure b/c I have never given a child up. However I could see if someone had to give thier child up b/c they could not afford to have a child or something else. I am sure there are many reasons.

THe bond doesnt go away. They still carried that child for 9 months and gave them thier DNA. Its just human nature to want to see your child no matter if you had the means to take care of them or not. Plus you always hear about children who want to meet their biological parents......

Who know this is a complicated question

Answer 3

Women underestimate the bond they have with their children...especially first time mothers.
This society teaches women to treat their children like 'responsibilities' and other burdens, not like gifts. Unfortunately, motherly instincts often contradict that of society's teachings.

Answer 4

because they realize what kind of mistake they made and wants to fix it. my friend is in that situationcfs took her baby away at 4 months and she now is trying to get him back he will be a year in 2 days. she had changes alot and is willing and i can now say capable of getting her son back and rasing him properly

Answer 5

Because the people you describe are children themselves.