i loved her, eventhough i had a feeling that she is somehow wear or upnormal. later when i asked her to get marry; her family told me that she is in mental treatments( not only depression but also she here wear voices" hidden ". i dont know what to do; i feel sorry for her and i don't want to cause more problem to her, but i am worry about my future with her.
2007-02-22 02:38:59 · 8 answers · asked by Lembi L 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
cheer her up.she may get well with your touch.don't desert her.love works miracles
2007-02-22 02:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by chiratai 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Psychological problems are usually long term reoccuring issues. Remember this is not her fault and she cannot simply snap out of depression or any other disorders she my have. On the other hand marriage is a serious step. If you are not willing to commit to her, depression and all, then its not going to work and only make things worse for the both of you in the long run. Try and help her, support her, learn about her issues, but I would tell you to wait on getting married.
2007-02-22 02:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by mudflower79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an old poem that says, "Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds." You sound very logical, and that's good, but, if you really love her, and her condition is under proper care with medication, why would you even think of NOT marrying her. Are you looking for a way out? If she continues to take medication that keeps her on the healthy path, I see no problem at all. Is she psychic? A lot depends on what the voices are saying to her. Do they tell her to do violent or bad things? If not, what is the problem?
2007-02-22 02:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by laurel g 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unless you plan to be her nursemaid the rest of your life, you should start making other arrangements. Gawd only knows what the voices are telling her now... Getting married out of pity is at the top of the list for horrible mistakes.
2007-02-22 02:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "voices" are the big problem. That could mean she has schizophrenia, a serious and genetic mental illness. The depression is not as bad. I would not consider a relationship with anyone who hears voices.
2007-02-22 02:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell her family that you truly care for her, and you dont care that she has mental problems. if u truly loved her, taking care of her during her mental treatments is nothing compared to the amount of time that you will get to spend with her.
2007-02-22 02:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it true love it will work but in this case it might take a lot of work on your part if you can't see yourself without her stick around it maybe just what she needs
2007-02-22 03:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by blue_eyed_southernman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you believe she's in any condition to be a wife and mother of your children? If not, don't marry her. Pity is never a good reason to marry.
2007-02-22 02:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋