i met this girl in a tution center and i sudeenly liked her and proposed to her and she was my juniour i am little fat and chubby and she was lean and sexy was this the cause or what do you think
2007-02-22 02:30:14 · 19 answers · asked by Shreyas S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How long has it been? Chances are she is just not ready for this kind of commitment. Marriage is a life long plan and should be thought about when you are both in that minframe, knwing that you want to spend your entire life together. Had you ever talked to her about marriage beforehand and what did she think about it? Iif you haven't discussed it then you should probably, when the time is right, talk about it. I think that your looks have nothing toi do with it, maybe she felt it was too rushed and needed more time. Good Luck XxX
2007-02-22 02:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by *Evie* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off! Are you saying you have just proposed (marriage) to a girl without even dating her?
A friend of mine have gotten this kind of sudden proposal before. The guy even relocated to Canada just to be with her (stalk her). One day he just showed up with a diamond ring at her class. It was a big turn off!
Before marriage, we have a thing called dating. I'm very sorry to tell you. I'm afraid it's too late for you now. This girl will forever be afraid of you.
I don't think it's got to do with your weight. Next time, when you see a girl you like. Take is slow. Ask her to a movie, dinner or so.
2007-02-22 10:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you just met her? It is too sudden to propose on a first meeting. Trust me, it is definatley not because you are a little chubby, it is most likely because she doesn't know you very well. You can either move on and find someone new to like or you can get to know her and try again later.
2007-02-22 18:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by caramel_latte 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason could have been anything, but the most probable one appears to be your somewhat abrupt proposal. Everything needs an introduction and some time to mature. Anyway, you should forget her and try to find another girl, who would hopefully agree to be your girlfriend for whatever you are.
2007-02-22 10:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep probably that is one reason, don't get upset you'll learn the ways soon. gettiong rejected doesn't mean end of the world, it'll hepl you to improvise yourself which is a good thing.
2007-02-22 10:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by jon_yao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you weren't dating her for a long time your appearance had nothing to do with it. You can't expect a girl to marry you without dating ehr for a long time and letting her get to know you.
2007-02-22 10:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by ...Melissa... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly for how long have u known this girl? if u've known her for a short while then u popped the q toooooooooooooo soon
2007-02-22 12:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by Forever Fabulous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think it had more to do with the fact that you were some random stranger that just proposed to her.
~G
2007-02-22 10:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by Dorkus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget it and move on. This is like me worrying about the sale I lost.
2007-02-22 10:33:27 · answer #9 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got great guts
dont hurt her take your own way tell her sorry for proposing her
ok
that you be last chance of proposing
she may trun upto you
2007-02-22 22:45:22 · answer #10 · answered by The Prince of Egypt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋