Haven't had much dating experience but I went on a 1st date w/ a guy I've never met before. I'm wondering about what he's really out for and would like some honest answers.
He started asking about the my past relationships, if I've had any flings, if I "did stuff" with them, asked what I'd look like my glasses off, then what I'd look like with my clothes off. Then within the first half hour he asked me if I would go down for a weekend trip with him. He kissed me and then asked me if I usually kiss on the first date. He continued to compliment me and said that I was blushing even though I wasn't. But I felt like the conversations weren't really going anywhere. He seemed to talk A LOT about a subject he was passionate about, but we didn't really connect conversation wise.
I was taken aback by the questions he was asking me though. Didn't think they were appropriate for a 1st date. Guys please shed some light on what he was doing. Is he only out for sex?
2007-02-22 02:29:13 · 16 answers · asked by Chelsea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am going to assume you are young...under 25
This guy sounds like a real tool to me. 'NEXT' that clown.
Your past relationships are none of his business, and the 'clothes off' comment was unacceptable. Even though it may cause an ackward situation, you need to tell a guy that those kind of comments are unacceptable. If he had any shame he would be embarrassed by your defensive, but neccessary comments. I know I would be.
A girl's greatest weapon is the ability to shatter a guy's ego, so use it against guys like this. He is a wannabe player, so if he makes you uncomfortable turn the tables on him. Once you have him on the ropes, you'll see what he's really made of.
2007-02-22 02:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a single guy, I can tell you those are NOT appropriate questions and comments for a first date. This guy is only after sex.
If you couldn't connect on a real conversation, then it will never work. You have to be able to talk easily about almost any subject.
You certainly would never ask a girl to go away for a weekend on the first date!!!
I would suggest that you NOT see him again. There must be other guys out there who are much more decent than him!
2007-02-22 02:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. It's not that it doesn't make a difference but it is something (at least for me) that I look at and notice. It isn't make or break though. Honestly, a lot of guys like small breasts. I personally, am open minded. If a girl has small breasts but a nice face and personality it makes up for it more often than not.
2016-05-23 22:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I don't have to be a guy to notice that. Why else would he ask you what you look like without your clothes, obviously appearances mean alot to him or it wouldn't matter. I'll give you three guesses for what he wants to do on the weekend trip.
2007-02-22 02:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by cgc17788 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it to me. Asking you for the weekend trip was inappropriate.
2007-02-22 02:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does sound like it and if you did not connect on an intellectual level it probably is not worth pursuing the relationship --- that is up to you to decide
2007-02-22 02:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's quite obvious he just wants to get you in bed
he was not very good at it..lol
drop him like a bad habit
better luck with the next one
2007-02-22 02:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by knox_mountain_guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him.
he sounds very creepy and sexual orientated.
i would seriosuly stay away
asking what you look like naked and asking if youve "done stuff before" is not normal behaviour
2007-02-22 02:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by LostMyMind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems really sensetive. And that's not cool to ask about your past. My past was bad but it has made me who I am today that people like. I would avoid him. He is already asking to much of you.
2007-02-22 02:33:16 · answer #9 · answered by whatever 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes he is just trying to get in your pants. if he was actually interested in you he would have asked about YOU not if you put out or not. bet he asked you what kind of panties you had on
2007-02-22 02:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋